Post # 1
For real though Has anybody else snapped at their future husband or inlaws lately? I feel on edge lately don’t know whats wrong with me. I mean like if you ever seen anything tyler perry and madea is in it Imagine that except worse. I litterally through my ring at him and said I didn’t want to be enganged or promised anymore. But then again the two times he and I were engaged it had to be “secret” no clue what to do I know I should be on wetv bridezilla probably would be the first one from Alaska but you all would get a kick with what has set me off lately. A little help how do I keep my bridezilla side from coming out!
Post # 3
Try to focus on what is important, your wedding is a few hours on one day, your marriage and family relatiinships is for the rest of your life.
Things WILL go wrong on your wedding day (and leading up to it) you just need to remind yourself that in the grand scheme of things the marriage and your relationships are WAY more important than the actual wedding day.
I never got so mad that I threw my ring at Darling Husband or took it off in anger, that would be a major problem for us.
It is very easy to get caught up in the wedding and lose focus that the important part is the marriage that follows.
Post # 4
It sounds like you guys have a history of an on-again-off-again relationship. I think that makes things hard, because after you’ve broken up once (or called off one engagement) it’s always in the back of your mind that you can walk away from this relationship (or that they can) and that can make it very difficult to trust and fully commit. That you *know* your behavior isn’t rational and it’s all out of proportion to what sets you off suggests to me that there’s something deeper going on that you don’t have a handle on.
It doesn’t sound like you’ve bought into the self-obsessed, entitled “It’s MY DAY” marketing myth and started pulling crap on people because you’ve decided you’re exempt from basic manners and courtesy–that’s “bridezilla”–so I think you should think some about what might be going on under the surface. Try writing it out in a journal, or a letter to yourself, or an anonymous post here, if you want?