- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2015
So me and my fiance met around 3 years ago, were together for a year then got engaged, and were about to get married yesterday. We were just going to have a courthouse wedding and go on our honeymoon thing together. Well as the week before went along, we were having problems with just little things that were always arguments. It was issues that had also been building for quite some time. Well the day before we talked and I called it off. We still went out for the night together and had the most amazing night we had had in a very long time. Well the next morning, because the night was so good, he thought everything was fine to get married. He begged and I gave in and got ready but still had the bad feeling we weren’t ready yet. So I went to his house to go and we talked. He repeatedly told me if we didn’t get married he couldn’t be with me anymore. When he realized how serious I was though, he said he would still want to be with me. So I called it off. He has talked to me very little, told me he loves me and he is still with me but is hurt. I understand that he is hurt, but is there really a chance that he is going to stay with me after all of this? Was it wrong of me to call it off when I did? I guess I just need some advice on how to handle all this emotion because it is hard.