(Closed) can a secondary virgin wear a veil over her face

posted 6 years ago in Traditions
  • poll: can a secondary virgin wear a veil over her face
    yes : (63 votes)
    32 %
    no : (7 votes)
    4 %
    it doesn't matter : (129 votes)
    65 %
  • Post # 3
    3626 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Sure, why not? I really don’t think your private life is anyone’s business, and I can’t imagine anyone would question your wedding day fashion choices.

    Post # 4
    1013 posts
    Bumble bee

    thats a thing of the past in my opinion.  I think i might wear the veil over my face because i would love that moment where its lifted off by my father. And trust me…i am NO virgin. 

    Its your choice and everyone else can stuff it. 

    Post # 5
    7293 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Well not sure what belief system your in but your sins have been wiped clean and you have been made a new, even if you ” rededicated” yourself. Wear your veil with pride!

    Post # 6
    2114 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Rock that veil

    Post # 7
    878 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    It’s nobody’s business if you’re a virgin or not – wear it!

    Post # 8
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    These days the veil is more of a fashion accessory than a statement of purity or virginity. Anyone can wear a veil

    Post # 9
    81 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    To be honest, this post really surprised me. I don’t think many people continue to think of the veil as representing virginity these days – all of my friends have worn a veil over their face when they were married (4 of them now) and NONE of them were virgins. I am also planning to wear a blusher and I am not a virgin either. I would be surprised if many of your guests associated your veil with your virginity so if you want to wear a blusher veil, then you should definitely do it!

    Post # 10
    2808 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Fiance and I have been together for 6.5 years and living together for 2.5…that ship has LONG since sailed and I will be wearing a veil over my face:) The state of my vagina is nobody else’s business.

    Post # 11
    1131 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    You totally can. 🙂

    Post # 12
    395 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It’s your wedding; you can do what you want!

    Post # 13
    778 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I think that’d be something to talk to your religious leader about, or, if you haven’t disclosed this information, see if you can find guidance in a book/website specific to your denomination. I find it a bit odd to ask a bunch of random strangers with, most likely, very different religious beliefs from your own (or no religious beliefs at all) what is/isn’t appropriate with regard to a religious question like this.

    Post # 14
    4755 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    All my friends have been nailed several hundred times over, and they all wore veils over their faces.

    Post # 15
    4284 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @MissCarnival LOVE this!

    @mrssrm Weddingbee is somewhere you can ask whatever you want and get all different opinions. If you don’t have anything to say please don’t leave negative comments. OP thought she could get all different opinions, she wasn’t asking if this was the place to get them.

    OP- I say wear it!!!!

    Post # 16
    1550 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    i am pretty sure that is a thing of the past.

    my husband and i slept together before our wedding day, and i still wore a veil over my face. it made me feel very bridal, and it made my husband cry.


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