- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
Our wedding less than 2 mos from now and on those days I will have a bridal shower and bachelorette party in Vegas lined up. I’m so excited that everyone in my family and friends are going the extra mile to make all this happen for me. However I can’t say the same for FI, his family is not really very involved and even his friends seems like they don’t care.
I feel guilty that I’m going on a weekend in Vegas with my girls and FI doesn’t even have anything planned. He told me he has opened up the topic to his GM before and he would say ok but doesn’t really follow up with it. He said he even volunteered to share with the cost but no one has even really made a solid plan to do his bachelorette party. FI GM is not really friends with each other. In fact they really don’t know one another, some are his college buddies, and some are from work and some family members.
My worry is that they would end up not doing anything for FI before the wedding. I really want FI to experience and enjoy all these events just like me. I don’t want him to feel that no one really cares about him especially seeing how a lot of people coordinate together to set up and event for me. He already had 2 guys who somewhat declined his invitation to be a groomsman so I know he already feel bad as it is. (FI is a good guy but on a quieter side so he only has a few guy friends).
Do you think its ok for me to ask one of his GM to coordinate a bachelorette party for him? If yes, how should I go about doing it? I don’t really have their numbers and don’t really know how to approach them. Let me know what you girls think..