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Cause I'm getting fired up about stupid crap lately!!  Is it because I have 5 weeks left?!?!?

Last night I flipped out because friends of my FI have been holding on to their RSVP for over a month now and he decides to tell him over a fantasy football league forum that they will NOT be attending.............WTF????  Mail it in!!!  You 17 hours away by car....obviously you knew for the last 2 years we we were getting married....you have known for 1+ months now the date, time, and location and you can't bother to RSVP?

I need some calming techniques or drugs.......

It's definitely b/c you have 5 wks left.  Just try to stay calm.  I found exercising, making time for nonwedding activities and wine (lots of wine) helped me get thru the last few weeks.  Hang in there!

I am trying to stay calm so that I don't freak FI out and so that I can "enjoy" this whole process but I'm beginning to be irritated by how inconsiderate people are.......amongst other things (like my mother calling me every day inquiring about how many RSVP yes/no's we have for the day - which doesn't matter to her since we are paying!)

Sounds like you need a spa day :). I could only imagine the stress your under considering there are only five weeks left! Maybe try and not think about the stressful things, and instead, try and think about spending the rest of you life with you SO. That's gotta make you smile :) (at least a lil bit >.<)

Hahaha that was just the tip of the iceberg yesterday........FI didn't see anything wrong with it!  Maybe because he didn't write the guest list, agonize over it, DIY 100 invites, address 100 invites, and keep track of guests coming and not coming, food choices.........and the dreaded seating chart!

I have 3 bottles of wine sitting in my house.....I may need some back-up :o)

Anybody else want to smack someone lately?

Sorry girl!  I was pulled into your rant by the title.  I am smiling cause I would be the same way. Really, MAIL IT IN!

oh man i hear ya on this completely! Little things are just driving me nuts.. and i too had a friend tell FI over a fantasy football forum that he will be there!!! FI was just like "please, just humor her and send it in, i can't deal with her if you don't just send it in..." haha.