Can I have the rehearsal dinner people RSVP to me?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is it ok to have RSVPs go to me?
    YES- totally fine. : (14 votes)
    100 %
    NO- RSVPs should go to the host(s) : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
    Member
    3001 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    People may think you are hosting, but that is the only problem I see.  If the parents are okay with you being in charge of the guest list, go for it. 

    Post # 3
    Member
    44595 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    weatherbug:  I say go ahead and do whatever works for you. If the hosts don’t mind, I’m sure your guests won’t care.

    Post # 4
    Member
    858 posts
    Busy bee

    I would say its fine. YOu are being a point of contact and planning things, why not

    Post # 5
    Member
    804 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I think its fine. Our host isn’t that good with remembering things, haha. She also doesn’t do email so I decided I’d take one for the team 🙂

    Post # 6
    Bee
    82 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - Sodo Park

    I had all the rehearsal RSVPs go to me! 🙂

    Post # 7
    Member
    192 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    What we did was make an email for our wedding stuff specifically…so “myfirsthisfirstwedding@gmail.com” we used that for rehearsal dinner rsvps…so it was never really clear on who they were rsvping to! I think it would be fine to include your phone number as well.

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