Can I have the rehearsal dinner people RSVP to me?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is it ok to have RSVPs go to me?
    YES- totally fine. : (14 votes)
    100 %
    NO- RSVPs should go to the host(s) : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
    2930 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    People may think you are hosting, but that is the only problem I see.  If the parents are okay with you being in charge of the guest list, go for it. 

    Post # 3
    43300 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    weatherbug:  I say go ahead and do whatever works for you. If the hosts don’t mind, I’m sure your guests won’t care.

    Post # 4
    858 posts
    Busy bee

    I would say its fine. YOu are being a point of contact and planning things, why not

    Post # 5
    795 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I think its fine. Our host isn’t that good with remembering things, haha. She also doesn’t do email so I decided I’d take one for the team 🙂

    Post # 6
    1045 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - Sodo Park

    I had all the rehearsal RSVPs go to me! 🙂

    Post # 7
    194 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    What we did was make an email for our wedding stuff specifically…so “” we used that for rehearsal dinner rsvps…so it was never really clear on who they were rsvping to! I think it would be fine to include your phone number as well.

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