Post # 1
I’m not sure if it’s offensive to ask my girlfriends that I didn’t ask to be my bridesmaids to attend my bachelorette party. What do you think? Is it is awkward or rude to invite non-bridal party girls to attend? Need some advice!
Thank you for your help!!! 🙂
Post # 2
I did. I had a small bridal party, but I have a lot of girlfriends that still wanted to be included in the bachelorette party! We had a blast! I gave out bridesmaid gifts and I also included small gifts for those that were not in the party because I love them too! 🙂
Post # 3
I think that it’s fine to invite people who you’re close to and are inviting to the wedding to the bachelorette, even if they’re not bridesmaids. Some of us decided not to aska all of our very good friends to be bridemaids and, instead, chose a small handful.
Post # 4
You can invite whoever you want! It’s normal around my area (upper midwest) that you do invite the wedding patry, and friends to the bachelorette party. I’ve only seen a couple bachelorette parties where it’s just the wedding party – and to me that’s strange. BUT, to each their own.
Post # 5
It’s totally normal and typical to have other friends invited that aren’t bridesmaids, otherwise you’d only have like 5-6 people at your party! I’ve been invited to several bachelorette parties when I wasn’t a BM. Typically siblings, female cousins, friends from high school/college/work, etc get invited to the bachelorette.
Post # 6
I’ve never heard of a bachelor party for just the bride and bridesmaids. Where I am from, you can have a lot of girls you know and are friends with!
Post # 7
Totally! I went to a bachelorette last summer for a girl who’s bridal party I wasn’t in! I had an awesome time
Post # 8
Absolutely! Invite who you want!
Post # 9
Of course you can include any friends whomever you like. B parties are not a recognized thing in terms of wedding etiquette and so there are no “rules” any more so than there would be for any time your friends decided to get a group together. Just make sure the organizer let’s people know in advance if it is a group sponsored evening, exactly how much they will be expected to contribute, and that it is clear they are not being “invited.”
Post # 10
Absolutely okay to invite them!
Post # 11
Yes, as long as they’re invited to the wedding as well.
Post # 12
- Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL
AshNikSkisCo: As a friend that was invited to the Bachelorette but not to be in the bridal party, I can say that I enjoyed the night out but it also underscored the fact that I wasn’t a member of the bridal party. It was almost like I am a good enough friend to pay for her Bachelorette party and buy her lingerie but not good enough to be in the bridal party. If you’re going to do this make sure to invite a lot of extra people (my friend had 8 BMs and a MOH and invited an additional 10 to her Bachelorette.) so it’s not glaringly obvious that one or two people were left out of the bridal party for whatever reason.
Post # 13
Thank you, everyone! I played field hockey in college and have a ton of close girlfriends that I’d love to have at the Bachelorette party. You all are great! The more the merrier, cheers!