Can I just tell y'all how much of a bag my new SIL is?!

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
898 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Ryansgirl:  I’d tell the girl to pack her shit and get the hell out of my house. How rude! Hope everything works out 🙁

Post # 4
3222 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@Ryansgirl:  Whaaaaaat 😐 This is intense. Your poor MIL! 

How old is your BIL? Is he young or naive enough to fall under the influence of this woman? It just seems so weird that there was a marked shift in attitude. 

Post # 6
275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Yikes. that is baffling and your poor MIL.

I would keep the lines of communication open to your BIL to give him something to fall back on because his fiance sounds awful! He may not appreciate it now, but having a supportive, welcoming family will make a world of difference. I wouldn’t speak to the fiance, however.

i have no idea what is going on, there doesn’t seem like a reason for it. Im sorry for your family, I don’t even know what I would do in that situation! I feel awful for your MIL to be treated so badly, that will stay with her for a long time.

Post # 7
1175 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Ryansgirl:  I think BIL is p***y-whipped.  And frankly, some male person needs to kick his ass for allowing this treatment to MIL.  How mean, and disrespectful.

I agree some one needs to tell the both of them to get the hell out of my home and NEVER come back. 

I am so sad for your MIL, I mean I understand that we all have in-law problems from time to time.  But to be just downright hateful to an other wise sweet person seems a little bit psychotic.


Post # 9
2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Sounds like that bitch had you fooled, and now her true colours are showing through. I can’t blame your MIL for being so upset… yikes. I’d be telling SIL to get her ass out of my house immediately, if I were her. You don’t get to disrespect me like that while living under my roof.

Post # 10
1109 posts
Bumble bee

I agree with all the other ladies here. It is well within your MIL’s right to say,’well, I’m sorry you feel that way, now get the fuck out.’ And if that doesn’t work, advise her to pack up their shit and put it on the front doorstep.

It’s fine to not get along with someone, but I believe if someone is doing you a courtesy to allow you to stay at their home you should try to be at the very least respectful.

There’s a chance if your MIL shows that she is not going to put up with that type of behavior then the BIL might reconsider his words a little bit. If not, then it’s not worth it, really.

Post # 11
11379 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Ryansgirl:  how long has your bil been with this older woman?  has he known her long?  has she ever shown any indication of this behaviour before?  it just sounds so crazy.  what did these letters say?  did any of it hold any merit? 

if i was your mil, i would politely ask this woman to leave my home. 

Post # 12
2630 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Ryansgirl:  What in the blue foo??? Your DH should take his little brother aside and (figuratively) kick his ass. Your poor MIL. 

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