- 3 years ago
Late on a Friday night….TGIF!
SO has had a busy week, 1st and 2nd round interviews with his dream company, been offered the all important 3rd interview in Portland, Oregon, which I’ve posted about on here.
SO gets home late, like 7-pmish…not really late, actually, early for him, but he’s tired (and honestly, he’s had a hard week!), and naps for an hour.
Meanwhile, I’m playing my fav songs…mostly dance songs…My SO and I live in a townhome, so after a while he comes downstairs and turns down the music dramatically. I know how to read my SO, he’s half joking….sorta being serious bc 1) the music is loud and 2) I’m not laying in bed with him (honestly though…I’m not out at the bar, drinking, doing whatever, I just wanna listen to my lady gaga, britney, whatever and dance in the comfort of my own home lol!)
I take the hint and take our laptop to our bedroom, plug in headphones, listen to new arcade fire and cry. I’m sorry, but arcade fire, afterlife the performance from SNL, brings tears to my eyes. SO PRETTY, LOVED IT! My SO had NO idea why I was crying…he let me know it was crazy that I’m crying over a song, now he’s on the couch, I’m in bed alone. PS….I told him that I honestly thought this was pretty and I loved it and it made me cry…….he didn’t get it! oh no!
LOVE beautiful music, always has been important in my immediate fam, we’ve always watched SNL, and has my fam and we do bond over SNL pop music. Are my MOM, DAD, and myself (and my bro), the only ones to do this? Was I out of line? Do bees dig music too? Whats going on here lol! I guess I’m worried that 1) I seem lame 2) Does my so get it 3) if he can’t get this is this worth moving for!! omg!!!
Double PS….I’m sorta spoiled in someways. My parents just LOVE good music, always been willing to go to concerts, always listened to music I lived….Just never met other parents like mine so not sure if this makes a difference.