- 4 years ago
- Wedding: March 2014
Hi again, some of you may remember my last post about my father:
Well, I am only having one wedding. I still haven’t sent out the invites (in fact we postponed it because of the drama around my bio-dad) and I’m still on the fence about whether to just hold my breath and invite him, or not invite him and risk WWIII his side of the family.
The latest development, though, is that he FINALLY returned one of my phone calls (he claims he never gets my emails, phone messages, etc even though I leave them on his work line and there’s no way you could run a business if you really didn’t get your messages) . He said he heard I was engaged, so he’d gone out and gotten ordained (through one of those internet minister things) so he could perform our ceremony.
Why would he do that without asking me? He’s also a compulsive liar so I don’t know if it’s real or not. But I was stunned. This is a man who doesn’t even tell me when he’s visiting my city for a week. Obviously he doesn’t feel too close to me. So why would he do that? And am I under any obligation to accept?