- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
So my maid of honor, who should be taking charge in planning most of the bridesmaids events (shower/bachelorette) has not been doing anything, and it’s making me a little upset. I chose her because I love her to death and she’s been one of my best friends for a long time, but due to her wedding which was a couple of months ago and other things, she just seems too busy to help with any of my upcoming events. She voiced very clearly that because she is doing the planning of my bachelorette party she is NOT going to help with my shower. (Of course she said it a little nicer, but I could still hear the certainty in her voice). So now a couple of my other bridesmaids are gratefully throwing me a shower.
So you’d think she be taking charge with my bachelorette, right? Nope. I have been emailing my girls all of the details and waiting for her to take the reins and start emailing too, but she has been seeming so busy with life that she hasn’t helped plan or even really expressed too much of an interest to go out of her way to help. We picked a restaurant together, after that I decided it needed to get done, but now that that is over, she seems to have decided that it’s all done. No invites were sent and all of my friends have been contacting me wondering what the heck the plans are. I mean, shouldn’t MOHs be really taking an initiative to make the bachelorette fun and thoroughly planned? Has anyone else had this problem? I feel like I have to do everything myself 🙁
Ok, I’m done 😉