(Closed) can i vent?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1529 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

i would think that this girl would know that they would not be sitting togther if he is in the wedding party, to me that just seems like common sense. good luck

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@spoonoutmyheart:

I just sent you a message! I saw this in another post!

I wou;d have your parents call her and tell her NO. They are paying for this. Or, I would inform them that they will have to pay for her seat. It is too late to be making changes and flavors of the month do no count as Significant Others.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@LuvMySailor: Totally agree with you. I can’t believe this woman would say those things when they AREN’T paying for it. She needs a foot up her ass!!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I would tell FMIL that if they want to insist this girl hangs out by herself for the whole day, they should offer up the $125 for her meal. Maybe that’ll give them some perspective? They are being unreasonable.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

I would definitely tell them she either can’t go, or they can pay for her if she is going. It shouldn’t be your parents who take the burden from an uninvited, last minute guest. Especially if he has a history of jumping from girl to girl. All of my friends and family who have had weddings under 100pp haven’t included a +1/short term gf/bf/guest-mainly for money reasons which I completely understand and so should they. Sorry you’re going though this!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Majorly rude. My uncle (who isn’t much older than me) is like that and is mad that I wont invite whoever he happens ot be dating come the wedding. At that much money it is ridiculous that they invited someone without asking you.

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

We are going through the same thing with FFIL- he’s bringing a date, yet he has yet to decide which 25 year old girl he’s bringing. In our case, if we say no he might say he’s not coming, so we are just allowing it. In your case I would have no problem saying no!!! Have you submitted a final count to the caterer yet? Has she already bought a plane ticket? If she does come she should know that she’s not sitting with him… and your FMIL knows his dating habits- why did she agree??

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