(Closed) Can they stop bringing me down? Rant.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
1497 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow. I’m sorry that they’re being so lame and dramatic. You’d think they were the ones with shitty bridesmaids. I’m sorry you have to deal with them being apathetic/whiny. I think you’ve adopted the healthiest attitude about them, because it doesn’t seem like they’re going to step up and be the enthusiastic, reliable friends you hoped they would. But there are other things weddings are about than bridesmaids, so try to rise above their drama and enjoy the parts of your wedding that you’re excited for. Lke delicious food.

Post # 4
Member
1437 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

That sounds awful, I’m so sorry you’re having such a rough time! I think that since there’s not much you can do to try to make your bms be nicer, maybe you should just take step back from them and their negativity (as you have), though of course still be friendly, just not reaching out too much. And treat yourself, maybe have a nice facial or something with your mom or fiance 🙂 Happy wedding (it’s coming up so fast!)

Post # 5
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

uggg. Girls suck. drama sucks. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way! but at least your wedding is coming up so try to focus on that and the positive. Whatever you do, don’t let this poison your day!

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