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    jwinnings      

    I swear it has to happen soon, but you never know.  It's so frustrated that he keeps dropping hints though!

    After thanksgiving there was a jewelry commercial on and i said that i wanted to get an aquamarine ring then he said "no, i'll get that for you for engagement".  then we somehow got on the topic of weddings/proposals a couple weeks later and he asks me exactly how I want to be proposed to! Then recently he said he's talked about his future plans for us with his mom(secret future plans that he wont tell me about!.)  Then finally one day when his mom said engagement rings are expensive and that he should start saving up he goes "I am!".

    Sigh. I  almost feel like I'm being lead on here, haha.

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    Well, the fact that he is talking about it is good! If he has talked to his mom about it, that is a really good sign I would think! Hopefully he really is saving up for it, and will surprise you one of these days soon! Hang in there ;)

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    It is great that he is open to talking about it and doesn't avoid the topic btw.

     
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    Ugh. I want the proposal SO badly...but don't know how to help it along. I wish I knew when he wants to get married....and THAT he wants to get married! I feel your pain.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    It's great that he is talking about it and he is being responsible and not taking out credit for the ring.  I'm sure that it will happen sooner than you think.  Just try to keep yourself busy and don't bring it up!

     
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    prttypancake    June 9, 2012   Long Island

    this is GREAT news! if he has been talking about it this much, this openly, it is coming soon!

     
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    I'd love for it to come soon! I'm trying not to fuss to him over it though and just be patient.  Thank goodness I have weddingbee to get my wedding fix! haha

     
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    and today he asked my ring size, geez hes killin me haha.

     
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    Miss Emily Marie    September 10, 2011  

    I feel the same way! My mom keeps asking me about it and his dad is always pestering us about when we're getting married. I told him I want to be surprised when he proposes but I still want to talk about it. He will talk about it but doesn't want to give anything away so says things like "it will happen when it happens" or "stop freaking out you know I love you and we will get married I promise". We both have things we want before we get married, like I want to be done with school (this May!) and have most of my loans paid off and he wants to have a full time job (which he does) so whats the stinkin hold up!

     

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