- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2011
I am new here, this is my first post and I am in a tricky situation!
My husband and I got married last December. He is military so it was a quick wedding but still beautiful-on the beach, with our closest family there. We wanted to do a vow renewal this year and reception since we didn’t get to last year and also because a lot of our family and friends were not able to make it on the short notice.
So we started planning, have put down deposits, sent save the dates, and my bridesmaids have already bought their dresses. One of my aunts has already bought her plane tickets.
Well we just found out that my husband’s leave request has been revoked-as in, it was originally approved, and now it has been denied. So that means we need to postpone. I don’t mind telling my family and friends… the hard part is telling my aunt and my bridesmaids who have already paid to be there.
I am looking for advice on how to tell them… we are *planning* on postponing it and still having it in the future, because I DO want to celebrate with my friends and family… I am just so upset and I feel so awful that it was all definite and now *BOOM* it’s not.