- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I know we can’t and won’t, but is anyone else at this point where they just want to cancel the whole wedding and get married on your honeymoon?
My bridesmaids have been an issue from day 1 fighting with everything I ask (just the shoes, the dress, hair. They say something is ok, then a few weeks/months later say no after I’ve mad all the plans and give them the details). Starting to get ready at 9 am is to long of a day on the wedding day. Food is going to be an issue. I’m providing breakfast for everyone. Can’t we go somewhere else to get our hair done. But original plan was to have a sleep over the night before and that wasn’t to long, now the plan is 9 am and that is way to long of day. It’s things like this that have happened the whole planning of the wedding.
Our flowers the lady we met with wrote down what she wanted not what we wanted. Had to complain and owner was suppose to call back and got me confused with a different bride and I had to call again and meet again to get the flowers I asked for the first time.
I’m on my 3rd hair stylists. First one left salon, hurt her wrist and can’t do hair anymore (understandable) but the salon never told me until I called for my trial. 2nd one when I was going between her makeup artist or not. I decided not. Found someone else, needed to come in earlier for hair, got mad and was going to charge me more (this was all in the last 2 months before the wedding that I had to find 2 new hair stylists).
I’m going in for dress fitting #6 because seamstrist, messed up neckline and can’t get it right. My wedding is in 9 days and its still not correct. Had to get manager and go all bridezilla. They said that’s the best they can do. I said no. My side boob is hanging out. Not ok. They told me when I bought the dress, that if I bought off the rack if it was still dirty after spot cleaning they would send it out for dry cleaning. THen they said I had to pay for this. Said my dress was done and ready to be picked up. Nothing else they could do. Finally my FI, went in with me. Now differnet tone, just because he walked through the door, (which is funny, because he normally lets me handle issuse because I’m better at getting things corrected then he is), now they are trying to fix my side boob and they are going to get my dress cleaned. But I still don’t know if my dress will be ready in time I have 7 days and its already taken 2 months and I’m still no closer now then I was a month ago.
The church never said the music had to only be religious or IDK by like Bach or something when we picked it until 2 months before the wedding, so the music I wanted everyone to walk down the aisle to, I can’t have. We were going between 2 churches, and the other church didn’t care what music we used. Then when I said I wanted the Bridal Chorus for me. I got Seriously, no one walks down to that anymore. You really want that. I haven’t played that in 7 years.
One of my bridesmaids friends is coming to the wedding and she will only know BM fiance. Seating chart is done. Friend couldn’t end up at table with fiance, all I got was can’t you move this person and this person to this table and this table and do this. She can’t sit with no one she doesn’t know, her husband isn’t coming. After I kept telling her I wanted to throw it all out the window, but we already paid for seating scroll with everyone’s names and can’t get our money back or we would just let people sit wherever. She made me switch trial makeup for her golf trip. (she’s been really helpful but seriously?)
People are canceling out left and right after they rsvped yes to the wedding. We can’t even make our minumin now. We are at about a 65% of people coming from who we invited and most people are in town.