Post # 1
my friend of a couple years and I have recently been talking more. This past weekend he suggested that we hangout when he got back in town on Sunday. The first time I have seen him in a year. He mentioned before he came over that he had to go to the office and could only stay for a little while. Well, he ended up staying for 6 hours and not going into the office….choosing to wake up at 4am on Monday to complete the project. Before he left on Sunday, he mentioned getting together the next evening (Monday) to help me decorate my tree that was delivered while he was there. I thought it sounded fun (although very soon to see each other again…back to back nights) And agreed.He text me Monday morning and said he’d had a good time with me the day before. About 4pm, he said he was exhausted from waking up so early and asked if we could postpone until Tuesday. I said that was fine. Later that night, he text me telling me that he was excited to see me the next day. Tuesday at 5 he text me that he wasn’t feeling well, didnt want to get me sick, and thought it was from the recent travel/lack of sleep. I responded with “
Post # 4
@SprinklesPink: “:) lol”, feel better. He said thanks. I haven’t heard from him since? Wtf! Is it possible he really is sick? I mean, why would be away all those nice things and suggest rescheduling and stay in touch with me for three years while I was seeing someone else…only to bail on me? What do you think?
Post # 5
It is very likely he is sick. A whacky sleep pattern like that can really mess you up.
Post # 6
@Jacqui90: 🙂 I hope so. I mean, I don’t hope that he’s sick..you know what I mean. Lol. I totally have a crush on him after all this time and I’m nervous. do guys typically go out of their way to say they had fun/are excited about seeing you again/ etc if they don’t mean it? 🙂
Post # 7
@SprinklesPink: Some guys do, but nice guys don’t. So he probably does want to see you again. Just let him know the ball’s in his court so to speak, that you are happy to see him whenever he is ready to.
Post # 8
Ya if a guy is interested he’ll let you know… let him call you.
If he isn’t interested… you’ll know that too… he won’t be calling.
And don’t think ya but what if he doesn’t have my number, forgot… whatever
Cause he hasn’t. Guys are smart, just as smart as us. If they meet a girl they want to get to know, they’ll figure out how to track her down.
The most successful long term relationships happen when a guy is smitten… he has to do the pursuing (it is part of their genetic make up… the Hunter within).
You have to let that play out.
Sure they’ll “see” a girl that chases them down… but it won’t last.
As someone posted here on WBee awhile ago, the guy needs the sport of it all.. there is no sport in road-kill
Go on, live your life, be all you can be… THAT is what makes you interesting / fascinating to men.
Mr Right will find you… you just have to be the AMAZING person that you already are… Self Confidence is sexy.
Hope this helps,
PS… Want to learn more ? Check out Greg Behrent’s “He’s Just Not That Into You” and the chapter entitled “IF He’s Not Calling You For A Date”
Greg is just one of the great men who write books to empower women by giving them the inside scoop on how men think. Other great authors on the topic include… Dr Phil – Steve Harvey – and John Gray PHD
Post # 9
I think he’s sick. He should be able to call when he recovers. Some illness can wipe a person out.
Post # 10
If my DH had a schedule like that he definitely gets sick. If he’s interested he’ll let you know.
Post # 11
Yes it is likely he is really sick. Don’t get yourself all worked up. Guys aren’t typically that complicated. If he says he’s sick, it’s because he is. If he wasn’t interested he wouldn’t bother to msg you at all.