(Closed) Cancelled Wedding

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Good for you! That behavior is a massive red flag. I’m very sorry you had to call off the wedding, but I definitely think you dodged a bullet here.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Wow, sorry this happened. It seems like you dodged a bullet there! Good thing you found out his true nature before getting married.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Sounds like this is definitely for the best.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

im so sorry that you had to make this decision, but its awesome that you were so strong and self-assured to make this choice – it definitely sounds like it was the right one, and you should be proud of yourself for making this decision

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Whoah. I’m sorry you have to cancel the wedding, but I’m also really glad he decided to let you see his controlling side before you got married :/. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

*hugs* – you made the right decision.  I’m terribly sorry you are going through this especially while involved in a LDR. 

You only get one life to live and living it by a man’s rules is not the way to spend it. 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@tiffyb24: WTF – omg!  Good for you girl – it really sounds like you did the right thing!  I am sorry that this is happening to you now, but it’s better now than 10 years later!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m so sorry it had to come to that, 🙁 but I think you made the right decision, too. It’s not OK for someone to control you like that. I mean friends/family once a month??? <3 Best of luck to you!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Trust it is for the best. I was in a relationship like that for a long time and it is not where you want to be. Thank God you are not getting married. It would only get much worse.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@tiffyb24: I’m sorry it had to come to that but good for you for standing your ground! *hugs*

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Good for you for standing up for yourself and dogding and MAJOR bullet.  I agree with you that a situation with a controlling spouse never ends well.  Good luck to you. 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think you made the right decision! I am glad you stuck up for yourself!! Like you said good think you found out before you got married!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

Good for you! As much as it hurts now, you avoided a lot of future heartache.

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