Cannot believe the wedding question this weekend!!

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
1024 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

was he joking?

Post # 3
588 posts
Busy bee

wanabeabee:  Some communities have church weddings that everyone really is invited to – you don’t even send out invitations to the wedding, it’s in the church bulletin and everyone who wants to come can come. It’s more common in small towns.

That’s not at all what my community does so it isn’t what I did, but it is what my mom grew up with so some people probably do expect that style of wedding.

Post # 4
9546 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

bwhahahahaha! College kids will do anything for free beer! He’s an idiot but nothing to stress about.

Post # 6
560 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Meh he’s just trying to be provocative. Last weekend I had the same thing happen-an 18 year old acquaintance (my friend’s step-brother’s friend…yeah) kept making a big deal about how we didn’t invite him to our wedding in December. Even though I know not to take it seriously, it’s still awkward. 

Post # 7
2430 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014


Post # 8
10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

WHAT? He can’t be serious, who thinks like that!

Post # 9
2740 posts
Sugar bee

Some people just have no clue what goes into weddings. 

Post # 11
453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My step daughter to be asked if all her friends can come! Off course we said no. Upon talking to her further, she thought it was just a big party where everyone comes to celebrate. They had no idea how much we have to pay per person. She had only been to one other wedding before when she was 5. Lol. Some just don’t know. 

Post # 12
28 posts

A 21 year old guy in college is likely to have no clue about what goes into planning a wedding and the cost involved. He probably has the mindset that its a  big fancy party that you can invite anyone to. He’s young. He’ll live and learn.

Post # 13
687 posts
Busy bee

I don’t think I had a clue when I was 21 either. I wouldn’t be so shocked.

Post # 14
2153 posts
Buzzing bee

wanabeabee:  Some people are just socially awkward… lol

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