- 7 years ago
So FI and I live in a large house with 4 other people (3 guys, 1 girl). Now, the girl roommate happens to be friends with FI’s ex-girlfriend. And the ex is here constantly!!! It is so frustrating… She was crazy obsessed with him after they broke up, stalked his facebook and would text him furious about things she saw, stuff like that. Thankfully, she’s calmed down with the anger but is still hung up on my FI.
Today is Friday, FI and I had plans to have a little party at the house (my best friends from home are coming to see me – I am so excited!) and guess who shows up planning to hang out all night ?!
Now.. the thing is, she is a nice girl. But she is stuck in the past and whenever she gets around me or FI all she does is reminisce about their shared past, and it really gets on both of our nerves. He’s asked her many times to stop talking like they’re still together, because she really does. (For example last time she was here she was talking about a time they went to sushi with friends of his and was all “we need to do that again really soon!!” despite the fact that FI doesn’t like her and never spends any time with her unless he absolutely has to. Or when she’s like “hey remember when we did X? Let’s make plans to do it again!). She doesn’t get the hint that my FI doesn’t want to be friends with her. So in short, nice girl but so very annoying and neither of us want her here.
Grrrr…. I’m just venting because I am of the opinion that exes are exes for a reason and there’s really no purpose in having them in your life, and FI agrees with me on that, and yet she’s forced upon us at least once a week. I cannot wait until we move (T-minus 2 months!!) so we can get away from her. We’re also moving towns so thankfully, she will be out of our lives completely.
Thanks for letting me vent, bees. I know it’s not a huge deal and not really worth being upset over, but it is just SO ANNOYING. (I put this under emotional, even though I’m not really emotional about it… just not sure where else it would fit)