(Closed) Can’t believe my eyes! The Great Stripper Debate revisited

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Yay for the good guys! Plus I kind of like the stripper thing because I am positive I will never be doing anything they do and my guy can get it out of his system through watching them. Yay for other girls doing the crazy “look my leg is all the way behind my head” move, leaving me freedom to keep my legs below my waist.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Both me and the boy have vowed to not have any stripper type people at our parties.  (I’ve also threatened my girls that there will be no uh “male shaped things” there either)  Seriously.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Good post! I’m not worried about the stripper thing, either. My FI would much rather drink beer with the guys on a float trip than hang out at a strip joint. And I’m confident enough in our relationship that, if he were to set foot in one with a few guys (for a bachelor party), he’s not going to run away with Sassy Woodriver. 🙂

 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’ve let me girls know I don’t want anything involving a male stripper. I also told FI I wasn’t really happy with the idea of him having them. He’s going to Vegas with friends for his bachelor party. I know most of them so I’m hoping they’ll respect our wishes and keep it stripper-free.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Harbison Chapel & The Maple Lane Farm

I haven’t really said either way, but I know Mr. Sunbeam is nervous about going to a strip club. A friend of mine said her husband’s underwear band was broken by a stripper pulling on it at a club trying to get him to into the scene. Not the best way to go lady. I think if either of us end up in one we’re hoping it’s for about 10 minutes and then we move on. We definitely don’t want seeing strippers to be the main event.

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I’m really torn on this subject. I trust my fiance but I do not like the idea of him being at a strip club. However, I know his friends are adamant about taking him to the strip club. So I’m trying to accept it and just have faith in him. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

My guy just had his bachelor party this past weekend. He had requested no strippers, but of course they didn’t listen and took him to a strip club. He said he just sat at a table and chatted with other friends of his who were equally not interested. Some of the other guys got lap dances and tried to make him get one on stage (he said no thanks). I tried to get him to tell me who got the lap dances, but he wouldn’t. I have a feeling it was guys who have girlfriends, but its none of my business so I didn’t press him.

He said the club they took him to was a “classy” place (if you can ever call a strip club classy?) and that most of the time, the strippers had their clothes on. He said he actually saw very few boobies and felt like you really had to be paying attention. I think there are differing degrees of strip club, I have been to a couple hard-core ones and yeah, very raunchy >.<

I can’t say I like the idea of a strip club, or my significant other going to one, but I trust him when he says he isn’t interested and it doesn’t bother me too much. If I were in a strip club I would look at the boobies too, since they’d be everywhere o.O!!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010 - Marie Gabrielle, Dallas

Mr. Fro Yo feels just like Mr. Sunbeam.  They make him nervous.  I’m pretty sure he’ll hit the golf course and a Rangers baseball game.  Not really your typical bachelor party, but hey that’s what makes him happy, so why not?

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

HA, well, I started the other debate so I guess I should comment Laughing

It really bothered me when FH went to a strip club for his best friend’s bachelor party.  It’s going to really bother me when he goes to one for his. ICK.  But he has promised me he will only go for bachelor parties and won’t get a lap dance. So I guess that’s a compromise.  But it still bothers me… 

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

I’m pretty sure if FI ends up at a strip club during his bachelor party (likely, since it’s in Vegas) that he didn’t actually want to go there but was coerced by his groomsmen. I know his ideal weekend is just drinking and playing craps with his friends, and he’s a bit of a germaphobe: I know he thinks the whole concept is gross, so I don’t mind if he goes to a strip club! 😉 But I would really rather not hear about it, to be honest. That’s between him and his groomsmen (and his conscience 😉 and I’d just rather not wonder what went down.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

From stories I’ve heard, there is a big difference between going to the strip club and ordering a stripper to come  to your house/hotel/etc.  The strip club has pretty strict rules but when you “order” one…who knows what could go down…the whole thing makes me pretty uncomfortable too.

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I have no issue if my FI wants to go for his bachelor party. In fact, he’s never been to one, so I keep offering to take him, but he’s not interested. lol. But the offer will stand if he ever wants to.

Post # 15
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

It’s good to know there are stripper guys and non-stripper guys out there =]. I encouraged my guy to go, joked it was a right of passage and that I honestly really didn’t care, but he had no interest. I said no biggee! It’s just a preference I guess. I wonder how many of the interested v non-interested guys were single?

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

The ones that come to the house are basically escorts. I have heard many stories from guy friends. I told my FI no strippers that come to the house, he can go to a strip club.  I would much prefer no strippers, but I don’t want to sound too controlling and let him have his night.  I also told him that what ever allowances he makes for himself,  I will be allowed to do the same. 

Personally, I wouldn’t mind just having dinner with my friends for my bachelorette party.  The whole bachelor party thing is just such a weird situation to me, you want them to have their fun but at the same time your man being grinded on by a naked girl is hard to swallow.

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