Can't come to compromise…

posted 3 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
1287 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@mamawolf:  If losing this ‘battle’ will lead to resentment, and anger post-marriage, then you need to fight for what you want.  I am not sure where your ceremony location is being held, but I think a fair and needed compromise is you and him at a courthouse in the next few weeks.  This way you get your small, intimate marriage.  No on needs to know.  On your ‘wedding’ date then, you play the part of the doting bride, you say your “I do’s” once more in front of these guests, and then try to enjoy the love and laughter at the reception thereafter.


Post # 4
849 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@mamawolf:  *hugs* I totally get what you mean. I wanted to elope and FI wants a wedding, at least the middle ground is that we have a small 60-65 person wedding that’s not so traditional.

Wish I had some advice. Sorry lady.

Post # 6
603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@mamawolf:  If you feel like hes not going to consider your needs and wants then maybe reconsider getting married at least right now marriage is all about compromise not one spouse having more say then the other.

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