(Closed) Can’t commit…

posted 7 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
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Worker bee

I had a friend who was exactly like you in choosing her venue. I would suggest checking out the additional venues (maybe by yourself or with a friend/family member if your FI doesn’t want to look anymore). Otherwise, you’ll always wonder. HOWEVER…if you have looked online at them and there are ANY red flags (room isn’t big enough, parking is weird, etc.), knock them off your list and don’t look back. Venues aren’t always perfect as is–hopefully you are able to find something that meets 90% of what you hope to find. If you already have that in the one that is left on your ‘maybe’ list, it’s probably an amazing venue. Good luck!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am the exact same way!  Luckily my budget was so tight that it limited my options, but that didn’t stop me from searching every nook and cranny on the internet to make sure that I had exhausted all of my options.  I went as far as booking one place and then changing my mind six months later and booking something else.  After that I had no desire to change my mind because I loved it so much.  It’s just a matter of finding something that makes you feel good inside, I guess.  I am so indecisive in everyday life that I would rather starve than make a decision on where to eat, lol!

Post # 6
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505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Nope, now we know there are at least 2 of us, lol!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I do the same thing when faced with decisions. Luckily, my FI brother is a wedding/event coordinator for a banquet hall, and we’re using his venue. OTHERWISE- I would have never made a decision. Go ahead, ask me how the other decisions are going. THEY AREN’T. That’s how they’re going. Laughing

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

ME !!!! I am also having issues with committing to a venue… I dont think the perfect venus exist for me in the area I need it, with the budget I have, with the size wedding I am having….

I am being forced to commit by next Friday… 11/5

Good Luck !!!!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m in the same position. I’ve narrowed it down to two (or maybe three), but the dates are filling up fast. Right now our top two choices only have one date each left in the months we want. So that may mean making a decision this weekend. ughh. I can’t wait for this part to be over.

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