Post # 1
It’s been about a month since the wedding, and I didn’t think that I felt any ‘post wedding’ blues or anything (I was actually a bit relieved to get back into the swing of work etc. after the wedding, the honeymoon, all the family time..). However, it’s been almost a month now and maybe I AM a bit down, because I feel like I’m in a total slump! Never have I procrastinated so badly in my life! I work from home and I’m finding that entire days go by without anything getting accomplished! I don’t FEEL sad that the wedding is over, but I have to pick myself out of vacation mode! Anyone else have a hard time getting back to regular life after all the excitement of a wedding??
Post # 3
Yes! I’m definitely not sad the wedding is over, because now we have our lives back. But I had to be back at work less than a week after we got married, so we never really got time to relax and unwind. I find myself justifying being extra lazy in my spare time to make up for it, but I’m trying to psych myself up for being more productive tomorrow.
Post # 4
I definitely got post wedding blues. My mom helped me realize what it kinda feels like.. when you are preparing and getting excited for Christmas, and then it’s one great day and it’s all over and back to real life.
For me, I kept seeing pictures on facebook of other people’s weddings and I wanted to live that fun over again (but defintiely not the work/plan part). I shouldn’t complain much because my husband and I got to have a relaxing 2 week honeymoon, however he had to leave a week later for work. He has been gone basically the entire months of July & August with me only making one trip out to see him so far. This probably adds to the blues but I’m finally finding myself getting into work and enjoying the extra time with friends.
Post # 5
Just wrote a post about getting over the wedding blues. I was feeling really depressed and lost..with night terrors and sleeptalking that even led me to a therapist..so, wasn’t good at all..then i went on holidays for 2 weeks and the sun and the sea did wonders, not sure how or why..things just fit into their place and i am feeling a lot better now!!!!
I think it does take a little time to adjust and i believe you really need to get yourself engaged into something. In my case, i am bursting with ideas about the house, cooking lessons, my kids’ return to school..
Hang in there, it will pass!