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    VintageMilwBride    September 23, 2011   Waukesha

    Hi Ladies, I know there are probably lots of brides who have regrets over certain aspects of their day but I'm a little obsessive/compulsive so I'm having an especially hard time with this. I go over and over this stuff in my head every day and I can't look at my pictures and not feel sad.

    The day of the wedding, I thought everything went really well and I was very happy and had a wonderful day. It wasn't until the weeks after and especially when I saw the photos that I started to feel like I screwed up so many things and I'm mad at myself and some of the people who didn't live up to my expectations. I keep trying to tell myself to "let it go" but I can't seem to do this and sit up awake in bed and over analyze.

    Please tell me I'll get over this at some point. I just need to hear the words from someone who knows what I'm going through since I don't want to make my new hubby feel bad like he couldn't give me what I was dreaming of because he did a wonderful job!!

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    Perfection isn't reality.  At the end of the day you began a new chapter in your life with the person you love.  That's reality.

     
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    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    At the end of the day, you're married to the love of your life.  Focus on the positives!

     
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    JM1217    June 30, 2012   Ohio

    Nothing is ever perfect. Ever. To sit here and think something is wrong because it didn't turn out 100% perfect is just setting yourself up for let down after let down.

    Instead of sitting there going over what in your mind didn't go right, think of how you are married to the love of your life. Nothing else should matter but that.

     

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