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    bree72    December 31, 2008  

    Here's the situation.... My fiance and I have a friend who has become less of a friend over the past year. Nevertheless, we are inviting him to the wedding because we have known him for years/went to school with him, etc., and it just seems like the appropriate thing to do, especially since we still run in the same circles. The problem is, that he frequently jumps between 2 girls, one of we both I and my finace can not stand...She's just horrible! My fear is that although he knows our dislike of her, he may want to bring her to the wedding. More so, she is the type of person to make him take her because she knows we don't like her. So, what I am asking is, can we tell him she is not to come? Because he's no longer a close friend, I don't feel like I need to be all that accomodating to him when he has plenty of other girls to ask.

     
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    AHotPinkPetticoat    Nov 14 2008   Toronto ON

    i take it you already sent the invite? if not, I would  just invite him and no guest

     
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    Kimbeerlee    11/1/08   New York

    We also have guy friends who tastes in woman is lacking. If you've already invited him with a guest you might want to make a phone call and see who he is bringing. It's your wedding and someone is paying for her to be there, if you don't want a particular person there you shouldn't feel obligated or bad about telling the friend to bring someone else.

    It sounds like she is only a hook up for this guy anyways, if it were hes wife or serious girlfirend theres not much you can do if you want him there.

     Good luck!

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    Novbride08       LA, CA

    I would personally tell him that he needs to come without a guest. 

    I have a friend who was in the same shoes as you.  That guy and date ended up being in so many of the wedding pictures which upsetted the bride when she was looking at the pro pictures.  On top of that, the guy is now married and regrets that girl ever being there and seeing the wedding pictures is a reminder of his past...=(

    So, I would just be straight to the point and tell him...

    Good luck~

     

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