Post # 1
I had to create another profile for this and I just needed to vent. I can’t stand my MOH bf’s. She’s too good for him.
I haven’t seen her in a few months. She lives about 30 minutes away w/traff. Anyways, me and FI went to an event down by where she lived and I cleared it by her the day before to see if she wanted to hang out. She told me he might not be home but to come over anyways. So, when we got out around 6PM I called and said we’re close, she told her bf and he said “I’m going to sleep.” Sooooo instead of just hanging w/me and telling him.. well we have a room she dismissed the whole idea and we went home. I know this sounds more like a problem with her then him but I still think he’s a dumbsh*t. They’ve been together for 4 yrs and just last year was the first time he told her “I love you.” he didn’t work for the first 3.5 yrs because of problems w/the law. I think she’s miserably wasting her time. But I CANNOT say anything because I know her very well and anything I say ATM won’t matter. I love her. I’m sorry for venting about this on here but I had to get it off my chest. I just called her to wish her a happy birthday. Her BF said I was only calling because my FI wasn’t around (untrue, he’s watching T.V.) I told him “I’m not speaking to the person who didn’t want me to come over..” he said he didn’t say that.. he told HER to say it. Makes me so aggrivated. He then proceeded to act like a jerk while we were trying to speak. *vent over*.
Post # 3
Girl I feel ya. I used to be your friend though. I dated a guy for nearly 4 years and non of my family or friends could stand him. As much as they told me I was too good for him I didn’t believe it. I saw somethign that they didn’t. Really the only thing you can do is continue to be her friend. Be supportative and hope that she’ll come to her senses. I finally did and two months later I met my FI. Im so glad that I finally realized what I deserved after all that time. You also need to talk her too because it could be her and not the FI. If you think its him though your probably right. Good luck with the situation.
Post # 4
UGGH! I feel your pain. I have one bridesmaid that is not only pregnant, but she lets her jobless baby daddy live with her. He has quit his second job in the six months shes been pregnant due to his temper. I cannot stand him. He’s a total clueless deadbeat. Sometimes I just want to show up and shake some sense in to her. That totally sucks that he’s outright rude to you AND your friend. This guy at least plays nice lol. Sorry to hear you have to watch your friend go through this. Hugs!
Post # 5
my BF’s partner is a lazy sperm donor but my friend and i agreed years ago that “you love your friends, you dont have to love their partners”. she is slowly coming around that hes a deadbeat but it has to be on her terms AND she has alot of trouble admiting defeat in anything so its a big blow to her ego that she made such a bad choice in him. lately she has made quite a few comments in comparing our lives and what she is lacking in hers, as a friend you have to wait it out and be there when they finally hit bottom. goodluck
Post # 6
Thanks bees 🙂 it’s hard to wait around and not say anything she’s not only my MOH she’s my cousin… I don’t know. I guess live and let live.. does hurt to see your family go through things and being mute on the subject.