(Closed) cant stand MOH’s bf *vent*

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Girl I feel ya.  I used to be your friend though.  I dated a guy for nearly 4 years and non of my family or friends could stand him.  As much as they told me I was too good for him I didn’t believe it.  I saw somethign that they didn’t.  Really the only thing you can do is continue to be her friend. Be supportative and hope that she’ll come to her senses. I finally did and two months later I met my FI.  Im so glad that I finally realized what I deserved after all that time.  You also need to talk her too because it could be her and not the FI. If you think its him though your probably right.  Good luck with the situation.

Post # 4
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1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

UGGH!  I feel your pain.  I have one bridesmaid that is not only pregnant, but she lets her jobless baby daddy live with her.  He has quit his second job in the six months shes been pregnant due to his temper.  I cannot stand him.  He’s a total clueless deadbeat.  Sometimes I just want to show up and shake some sense in to her.  That totally sucks that he’s outright rude to you AND your friend.  This guy at least plays nice lol.  Sorry to hear you have to watch your friend go through this.  Hugs!

Post # 5
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

my BF’s partner is a lazy sperm donor but my friend and i agreed years ago that “you love your friends, you dont have to love their partners”.   she is slowly coming around that hes a deadbeat but it has to be on her terms AND she has alot of trouble admiting defeat in anything so its a big blow to her ego that she made such a bad choice in him.   lately she has made quite a few comments in comparing our lives and what she is lacking in hers, as a friend you have to wait it out and be there when they finally hit bottom.  goodluck

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