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Catholic Wedding Question

Can't use an actual candle, so...

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    rebecca    September 13, 2008  

    As an interfaith couple, we like the symbolism of a unity candle (2 people/families coming together as 1), but:

    --We're not allowed to use candles in our venue.

    --We don't want to use sand (it's messy and it seems very beach wedding to me) or wine (FI doesn't like it).

    --As I understand them, a rose ceremony, knot ceremony, or handfasting ceremony don't really have the same symbolism that a unity candle does.

    Any other ideas?

     
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    QueenoftheClick    11/29   NY

     

    You could probably decorate the battery operated candles to look like a unity candle. I have these battery operated candles and they do look like real candles.

    http://www.batteryoperatedcandles.net/

     http://yhst-15691218933746.stores.yahoo.net/calaevca.html

    http://www.gazebos-and-garden-sheds.com/battery-operated-candles.html

     
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    jma19      

    Really random, but I'm really tired and stressed. What about something like your families combining river rocks in a container as a foundation and then you and your FI planting something (or sticking in bamboo) as a symbol of your love growing in the foundation your families formed. ??? No idea. Sorry if it's dumb! :)

     
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    missbean    August 23rd, 2008   Canada

    What about pouring two liquids of different colours together to create a different colour? (ie. mix blue and yellow water to make green - you can't separate them! If one of your wedding colours is a secondary colour, I'd say give it a shot!)

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    rebecca    September 13, 2008  

    Great ideas so far! @Queen, don't you have to pick up the candle and flip it over to turn it on? I've only seen battery-operated tealights, not pillar candles, so I'm not sure how the larger ones work. @MissBean, really great idea, but I'm worried about spilling colored water on my dress (that why we're drinking white wine for the kiddush). @JMA, even if you're tired and stressed, that's a great idea too, and pretty easy to implement. I think I just like the idea of combining small things into 1 bigger thing.

    Anyone else?

     
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    bluejaywalking    6/21/08   CT

    I once heard of a bride doing a soil ceremony, where they took soild from each of their homes,combined them, and then planted a bulb or other plant - I thought that was super cute!

     
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    goodvoile    July 26, 2008  

    I have heard of using wax beads instead of sand . . . it would be less messy and less beachy, but a similar process. Just a thought . . .

     

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