(Closed) Can’t wait for the wedding to be over?

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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495 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Oh man, Miss MJ, I am so with you.  I have this big certification exam on 8/25 too then the wedding on 9/26.  I’m going nuts and my to-do list just seems to grow and it’s all that detail stuff I don’t care about!!!

I’m feeling you.  I’m dying for it to be wedding day followed by the honeymoon!!

Post # 4
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1357 posts
Bumble bee

Only 10 days until our wedding – and so much “real life” stuff going on! My fiance has expressed this sentiment of just wanting it to be over for quite some time. At first, it offended me. But now I’m right there with him!

Post # 5
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230 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

“…sitting and thubing through a pretty album of your pix with your new hubby…”  *sigh* That sounds wonderful!  I’ll be one week in to my last semester of school when we get married, so even more than looking forward to our wedding being over, I’m looking forward to December when my evenings aren’t consumed by studying or wedding planning, and I can just be enjoying life with my husband.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

I’m kind of the opposite…I have a ton of time, so I feel like I can’t do anything! I’m bored!

Sorry you’re having to do so much in a short time. Hang in there!

Post # 8
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2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

@Miss MJ – I am kind of like you. I can’t wait for the planning to be over. I am looking forward to the night of September 4 where I will get my nails done and be done with the planning. After that, my helpers take over and I will force myself to relax!

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

been there done that. the relief is fantastic. all that’s left are the thank you cards and organizing all teh stuff! But it’s nice to relax. no more stress. one more month, maryjane! hang in there!

Post # 11
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165 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

OH. YEAH. Our wedding is in 4 days and instead of crossing items off the to-do list, I am finding I have to say “oh well, nobody would have noticed that detail anyway” and REMOVE it from the to do list.  I don’t want to spend the weekend of the wedding finishing up DIYs for small details when I could be spending time with guests who flew in.  FI and I fight daily because I am stressed wanting everything to be perfect and he feels guilty for not doing more to help me.  It SUCKS.  I can’t wait until Sunday night, when it’s OVER and we can turn the passion of the past few weeks into some actual passion between the sheets!  🙂

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I don’t know that I would have said I was eager for the wedding to be over. I certainly have more time afterwards — I really enjoyed taking time off for the honeymoon, and yeah it was crazy hectic leading up to the wedding — but the furthest I would go would be to say that I was eager to see everything come together.

Good luck with everything on your plates! I certainly feel better now that everything is back to normal, but I am so glad that I worked so hard on everything I did. Of all the stuff I could cross off my to-do list, it wouldn’t have been wedding stuff.

Post # 13
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349 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

You’re a LOT busier than I am, and I also want it to be over! I’m a September bride, too, and we’ve been planning since last July. I LOVE planning events. I’ve done it professionally as well, but planning your own wedding is just exhausting on a whole other level. I’m beyond ready for it to be here and be over so we can let go of all the unforeseen family drama, the details, the wedding clutter all over our apartment and just BE with each other.

I totally hear ya!

Post # 14
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952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I have about a month left too and I’m oddly pretty zen. There are the things I HAVE to do, like pay remainders on the deposit, find some shoes and some make-up that won’t show my zits, but I’m letting go of anything that isn’t on that must-do list. I’m to the point where honestly? I’m done with it. I’m ready for the honeymoon! 🙂

Post # 15
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7082 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

I got there MJ!  The last week was insufferable, but it made me all the more appreciative of the event and the marriage!  Hang in there, and keep one foot in front of the other!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I’m totally with you.  We have 24 days and I just can’t wait for it to be over and to go on our honeymoon to relax.

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