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Car from Ceremony to Reception: Ideas other than Limo

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    brandylynnp    September 25, 2011  

    Fellow Bees:

    I posted yesterday looking for advice on limo or no limo, I didn't get any responses (but my post is accidentally in Etiquette...not sure why).  Anyway, after researching a lot of posts on what you would do differently if you could do it again, there is a lot of "the limo wasn't necessary".  After calling around, I have found that we are looking at around $300 for the ride from the ceremony to the reception, and based on our timeline we probably won't have time to stop off at our favorite pub, and if we do only for about 10 minutes.. So really this is just a means of transportation, granted with a driver and some bubbly.  I also talked to my FI and he doesn't think that it is worth the money.  So, question:  What do we do instead?  Any unique ideas?  The drive is about 45-60 minutes from ceremony venue to reception venue.  I love my Tahoe for day to day, but it doesn't feel right for that big day, and his Hummer isn't striking me as quite right either.  Everyone else in my family has blah sedans or SUV's. 

    Any interesting, and budget friendly ideas?  Or should we just go with one of our cars and not worry about it so much?

     
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    MsBrooklynA       Midwest

    Do you know anyone with a classic car like a mustang or an old school Mercedes that would borrow it to you? Or if you have a wedding party what about borrowing an RV or renting one.

     
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    brandylynnp    September 25, 2011  

    @MsBrooklynA: Unfortunately I don't know anyone with any kind of 'cool' or 'classic' car that we can borrow.  I thought about renting something, but then I thought about having to deal with the return the next day (not a fan).

     

     
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    julies1949      

    You could still have a close family member or friend rent the car and be your driver for the day.

    Have you tried contacting the Vintage Car Clubs in the area? My Dad used to own a 1930 Ford Coupe with a rumble seat and he loved driving brides on their wedding day.

     
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    FallBride2B    October 15, 2011   Upstate NY

    We are using a trolley, which is about the same price as a limo, but fits 30-40 people if you want that many riding with you!  Otherwise like PP's said see if a family member or friend has a vintage car you can borrow or something to that effect!  Good luck!

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    @julies1949:

    Have you tried contacting the Vintage Car Clubs in the area? My Dad used to own a 1930 Ford Coupe with a rumble seat and he loved driving brides on their wedding day.

    What a neat idea, thanks!

     
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    futuremrskline    March 17, 2012   Philadelphia

    You could try contacting local car clubs.  One of my friends is in a classic car club, and he said members would be more than willing to do something like that.  You would probably have to throw them a few buck, but it would be worth.  Another idea I saw from another post was to have you photographer take a picture of the car, which you can frame as a thank you to the owner.

    If you are in an urban area that does horse/carriage tours perhaps you could hire one to drop you off?

     
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    vmblai1019    October 29, 2011   Atlanta, GA

    @brandylynnp: I don't think it's really necessary to rent a different car. If you would still like some bubbly though, ask a friend to drive your tahoe for you. You could "dress it up" for the day too :)

    I couldn't justify spending $300 on a limo for such a short drive.

     
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    Elvis    October 31, 2015  

    We're planning on taking an overnight train, as the place we're doing the ceremony is about 8 hours from the reception--we aren't expecting people to travel that far just for a 5 minute ceremony, so we'll do the reception in our home city the day after.

     
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    brandylynnp    September 25, 2011  

    @julies1949: & @futuremrskline: Great idea about the local car clubs, I will take a look.

     

     

    @vmblai1019: This is a realistic and rational idea that I should proabably just get my head around.  After all, it is US, Our Car, Driving to OUR Wedding Reception... :)

     
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    brandylynnp    September 25, 2011  

    UGH... I have been stressing about this all day.  The more I think about it, I just don't want anyone to feel left out, and if anyone iin the bridal party is 'partaking' when getting ready or during pictures after, I would like for them to have a ride to the reception, and for us to be together makes sense.

     

    Anyone have a negotiation tip/trick to get a limo cheaper than posted rates?

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    We just used our personal vehicle. Everything was in the same place, and there was no need to spend additional money when we have a perfectly good SUV we could use

     
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    brandylynnp    September 25, 2011  

    @MrsSl82be: I hear ya.  My FI is against driving, he doesn't want to drive himself on his wedding day, and since he has been so good about me picking everything he deserves that.  Our ceremony and reception are 45 minutes apart.  Maybe we would just have to recruit a driver out of our party and we will ride in the back seat.

     
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    kperry3    January 1, 1991  

    If you really want a nice car, I would just ask a friend, boss, or family member who has a car you like. I'm sure they would love to lend it to you for the reception. We used my DH's boss's car for the getaway. It's a really old porsche and my DH loves it! Aside from it looking good, we were just going to use either my CR-V or his Miata.

     
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    julies1949      

    I hear your concern about your wedding party not drinking and driving (including the bride and groom).

    IF you want them to have rides, you can always just ask the spouses,/partners of the wedding party to be the drivers and supply the vehicles, or ask close friends or relatives.

     
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    brandylynnp    September 25, 2011  

    Thanks for all the advice Bees.  I found a Groupon for a two hour limo for $99, and even though they are still going to charge me drive time...I think I am going to go for it.  I never took a limo to any of my proms, and I have never been a bridesmaid in a wedding that had a limo; so this would be my first limo experience, and I decided WE DESERVE IT!! (Not for $300+, but closer to the $150 mark I can stomach) :)

     

    Loved all the ideas, and thanks for your input!!

     
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    CassidyR    July 25, 2012   Navarre, FL

    for others out there still looking- we are considering renting a cool car from a rental co (think budget) for under $160. You can get some cool cars out there. There also won't be a lot of drinking at my reception (2 hours or so, no dancing)

     

     
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    elliestan    October 15, 2011   OK | TX

    we could NOT find anyone to rent a cool car from! we stalked car shows, talked to car clubs and they were all rude douches lol. we ended up with a town car... ho hum!

     
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    peachbaby4008    September 29, 2012   Illinois

    We will be using my old chevy truck. I just have no clue how I am going to be getting up into it. :/

     

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