Post # 1
So i want to include my Fiances borthers Fiance in our wedding. I already have 4 (maybe 5) bridesmaids so i feel like a)we arent super super close and after speaking to fiance he felt although i wanted to add her it was not necessary and b)6 is too many when i actually think about it. I want to write a letter and go for coffee asking her to come get ready with me and the ladies the morning of, join us during photos(her fiance is the bestman and id like to have a few nice photos of them) and also do a ready at the ceremony. Anyways…. how can i word this is a card??? im getting all confused and frustrated trying to write it.
Post # 3
Short and sweet.
My girls and I are getting ready at location at # time and I would love for you to come and have breakfast with us and get ready. I think it will a lot of fun all us girls! And of course since we are nearly family I really would like you to be in our photos.
Also, it would be my honor if you would do a reading at our ceremony. I have chosen DJF DSJG for the ceremony, would you feel comfortable reading this?
Post # 4
If you want to grab coffee with her anyway, why do you need to put it in a card/letter? Why not just ask her? “Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to do XYZ on our wedding day?”
I mean, the card is a nice idea, don’t get me wrong. I’m just not sure it’s necessary. I didn’t do anything special when I asked my BMs to be in my wedding. And I asked our reader over Facebook because she lives in another state.
Just my two cents, hopefully you’ll get some other good suggestions.
Post # 5
I guess because i love cards i wanted to give her something she can keep. I was thinking of including a gift.
Post # 7
@lefeymw: I second all of that:)