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Yeah, that's what it means, but it took me a second to figure it out. And the person who received the invitation was really unsure - her sister thought it meant they were being picked up and taken back to the rail station for free and her other sister thought some carriages were going to come and take them for a ride about the grounds. So not very clear what it means in that language when it could have been phrased simpler. I was asking if you'd heard it before, though - have you?
carriages at midnight
as in everyone get out at midnight before your car turn into a pumpkin (a la cinderella) or that there will be transport provided to all guests to leave the venue, if the venue is in a barn where a hike was needed to get to it
either way, fun and games are over at midnight im guessing
@eloping: Yep, fun and games over indeed! But that ambiguity is what I find weird - you're guessing between whether you're being told to drive home or told they're going to drive you somewhere....... and if you assume wrongly, you could end up with no taxi booked or whatever. Chances are you'd ask someone what it means, which happened in this case, but some people are literal and would assume they're being taken away in a carriage!
This is traditional wording in the UK but I thought only among the crustiest upper crust! This must be a rather fancy wedding!
@Magdalena: Haha there was a moment where they googled the venue and did a ring round of their group of sisters to make sure everyone knew it was gonna be a "wear a hat" wedding :)
I've never seen it before, but I think it's sort of cute. Especially if the bride is doing a fairytale/ Cinderella wedding and leaves in an actual carriage!
To be honest though, I've never seen the end time on an invitation for a wedding. They just put the start time in the US.
The first time I saw it was on the tickets for my formal ball in my last year of school (but then I went to a private school). My university college ball also had it, albeit as "Carriages at dawn" but that was a White Tie affair (Black Tie is officially semi-formal, in old-fashioned dress-code etiquette, White Tie and Tiara is formal).
We're having "Carriages at 1am" which isn't so exciting, but we're going on past midnight.
@seven12: I don't think the bride would go in a carriage. There's a stigma since Katie Price/Jordan's wedding, I think. They're beautiful though, it's a shame there's a stigma.
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Someone I know, who has been to a great deal of weddings over the decades, recently received an invitation that ended "carriages at midnight". She'd never come across this before and neither had I. I find it to be a confusing thing to say and rather pompous when you could just use "normal person words" to convey the message clearer. Has anyone come across this before?