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posted 8 months ago in Paper
  • poll: How familiar are you with this phrase on invitations?
    Yes, seen it on an invitation before. : (2 votes)
    6 %
    Not seen it on an actual invitation but heard of it before. : (2 votes)
    6 %
    This one's new to me! : (30 votes)
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    VickyAurea       England

    Someone I know, who has been to a great deal of weddings over the decades, recently received an invitation that ended "carriages at midnight". She'd never come across this before and neither had I. I find it to be a confusing thing to say and rather pompous when you could just use "normal person words" to convey the message clearer. Has anyone come across this before?

     
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    KatyElle      

    Doesn't that just mean the time the event ends?

     
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    VickyAurea       England

    Yeah, that's what it means, but it took me a second to figure it out. And the person who received the invitation was really unsure - her sister thought it meant they were being picked up and taken back to the rail station for free and her other sister thought some carriages were going to come and take them for a ride about the grounds. So not very clear what it means in that language when it could have been phrased simpler. I was asking if you'd heard it before, though - have you?

     
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    @VickyAurea: I've seen it before yes.

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    carriages at midnight

    as in everyone get out at midnight before your car turn into a pumpkin (a la cinderella) or that there will be transport provided to all guests to leave the venue, if the venue is in a barn where a hike was needed to get to it

    either way, fun and games are over at midnight im guessing

     
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    VickyAurea       England

    @eloping: Yep, fun and games over indeed! But that ambiguity is what I find weird - you're guessing between whether you're being told to drive home or told they're going to drive you somewhere....... and if you assume wrongly, you could end up with no taxi booked or whatever. Chances are you'd ask someone what it means, which happened in this case, but some people are literal and would assume they're being taken away in a carriage!

     
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    Magdalena    December 1, 2011  

    This is traditional wording in the UK but I thought only among the crustiest upper crust! This must be a rather fancy wedding!

     
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    VickyAurea       England

    @Magdalena: Haha there was a moment where they googled the venue and did a ring round of their group of sisters to make sure everyone knew it was gonna be a "wear a hat" wedding :)

     
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    seven12    October 15, 2011  

    I've never seen it before, but I think it's sort of cute.  Especially if the bride is doing a fairytale/ Cinderella wedding and leaves in an actual carriage! 

    To be honest though, I've never seen the end time on an invitation for a wedding.  They just put the start time in the US. 

     
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    SpecialSundae    April 21, 2012   Dunfermline, Fife, Scotland, UK

    The first time I saw it was on the tickets for my formal ball in my last year of school (but then I went to a private school). My university college ball also had it, albeit as "Carriages at dawn" but that was a White Tie affair (Black Tie is officially semi-formal, in old-fashioned dress-code etiquette, White Tie and Tiara is formal).

    We're having "Carriages at 1am" which isn't so exciting, but we're going on past midnight.

     
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    VickyAurea       England

    @seven12: I don't think the bride would go in a carriage. There's a stigma since Katie Price/Jordan's wedding, I think. They're beautiful though, it's a shame there's a stigma.

     

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