(Closed) Case of cold feet…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

ohhhhh toughy! go with your heart! I know that sounds so cliche and all, but honestly it’s your life and you only get one shot.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Everyone second guesses decisions in their lives. It would be a problem if you didn’t.

You need to talk to him. A wordly trip every now and then does not have to get in the way of starting a family. You can have it all. Make it work.

Remember why you said yes. Do you still feel like you’d say yes if he asked you to marry him today?

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@lynnt85:  I was engaged before I met my Mr. Right.  While I would have been “happy” marrying guy #1, I knew in my heart that I didn’t really want to marry him.  I wanted the life I would have with him–but not him (loved his family, loved how smart he was, yaddah yaddah).

I called off my first engagement 4 days before the wedding.  It sucked, but I now know there’s no shame in reassessing a relationship. 

Today, there is no way I would ever let Mr. Right go.  No cold feet.  Nothing but excitement for our future.  Mr. Right is the real deal and I know it with every ounce of my being. 

Compromise is always a big part of any relationship.  At the same time, you must honest with yourself and what you really want, otherwise you won’t be happy.

 

My advice?  Let go of any anxiety and really search your feelings.  Determine what’s most important to you, then talk to your man.  Hopefully, together, you will come up with a compromise that feels like a win.

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