- Rock Hugger
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So, we want to have a get together the night before our destination wedding in FL. After the rehearsal dinner, I want to invite all of our guests to the bar behind the hotel to hang out and get some drinks. However, we have absolutely no money to pay for an open bar for the night-before party. Is it tacky to just invite people to the bar to hang out – i.e. they pay for their own drinks?
On that same note, we plan on having the after-party at the same bar behind the hotel. Again, we were planning on just having people hang at the bar – they pay for their own drinks. We mights spring for a bunch of pizzas, depending on how the rest of the budget plays out.
Again – is this tacky (cash -bar at the pre- and post parties)? Side Note – we are having an open bar at the actual reception. We are also giving everyone 2 mini-bottles of rum in the OOT bags.
You can be brutal – I can take it