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    JoyfulBee    June 26, 2011   San Jose

    Hey there,

     So I was wondering, my S.O. and I are protestants, but we would like a traditional wedding. Aka, in a cathedral (we both appreciate the beauty). Most of the cathedrals here are Roman Catholic, and now we're both left wondering... are Protestant Pastors allowed to preside at a wedding in a roman Catholic Cathedral?

     

    Thanks,

    Joy 

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    ju1244    11/1/08   New York City

    I dont know what an S.O. is I am having a jewish wedding in a cathedral, with a conservative rabbi,  I think its up to the Cathedral and then up to your officiant!  

    You might check cathedrals that are part of a school where you are an alumnus. Good luck! 

     
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    WeddingKitty      

    Check episcopal cathedrals... many are gorgeous and I think they might be more flexible.

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    Bridediy    3/29/08   Chicago, IL

    If the cathedral is still an active Catholic church then from my understanding No you cant use it for anything but a catholic service with a priest presiding over it.  However you can look for Cathedrals that are now just historic landmarks not practicing churchs with congregations if you are in a large city. 

    Or as WeddingKitty suggested go to either an Episcopal Church or a Presbeterian Church both denominations usually have beautiful churchs very similar to Catholic Cathedrals.

     
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    jess03    November 15, 2008   Chicago

    It might help to indicate your location so that people can make recommendations.  I'm having my wedding in a Protestant cathedral in Chicago.

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    gracielou      

    I'm having mine in an Episcopal Cathedral in Pennsylvania. It's gorgeous!  Very traditional, and a lot of times you can get it more traditional or more modern depending on your taste.

     
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    msqthoney    April 10, 2010   Los Angeles, California

    if you are looking at a catholic cathedral, then i don't think that's gonna happen.  but there are non-roman catholic cathedrals that are just lovely.  if u are in so. california, the glass cathedral is pretty famous and fabulous :)

     

     
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    suzanno    7/12/08   Richland, WA

    My sister had her wedding in the very ornate and lovely Loretto Chapel in Santa Fe, which was previously a Catholic church but is now a historical landmark.  It was a big surprise to her when their Catholic priest told her he couldn't perform the ceremony there!

    You can only have a Catholic ceremony in a consecrated chapel, so if the cathedral or church is currently operating as a Catholic church, you're out of luck.  But I agree that there are many gorgeous old churches that are now historical landmarks, or are not Catholic.  I would look into something like that.

     

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