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Good Luck finding people to do that. I went on interfaith family.com and there are only 2 rabbis in the NYC metro area listed that will do a service with a priest. There were only about 12 rabbis that would do an interfaith service with just the rabbi doing it. I found one from the list  who agreed to it only if it were a pure Jewish wedding and no priests at all.

We are having just a rabbi and like I said it was hard to find one that would do an interfaith marriage, I was very upset when my childhood rabbi would not do it but, I see the point I myself am going againsit something I have belived in for years that mixed marriage is not right but I moved to some where where there are barely any jews. I would never be marrying out of faith if I still lived in NY because I would never have dated out of religion there. With that said my FI is not religious so his family and him did not care about a minister being there or not. I don;t know about catholic prists but after going to the Vatican they seem to have lots of rules. We are going to include one luteran ritual and the rest will be Jewish.

I don't think that you will find a Catholic priest that will co-officiate, especially at an outdoor wedding. In order for a Catholic wedding to be performed outside a church you have to have special circumstances and get permission to do so. What I would suggest is having a Jewish ceremony, presided over by a rabbi, and maybe add a few Catholic touches (readings, music) and then have a blessing done by a Catholic priest after. There are other Catholic bees here that probably have more specific information for you.