Ceremony guest disagreements b/t FI and mom

posted 3 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - NH

Honestly, it’s not that many people that you are looking to invite.  We tried to keep our guests even…I didn’t invite as much family to do just that so we could keep it small and intimate.  I like your plan, but I don’t think you should be limited to 10 guests to his 50

Post # 5
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7195 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Why is a lot of people at the ceremony, any different from a lot of people at the celebration? I think it’s a little rude to invite people to the celebration but not the ceremony, as you yourself saw when your mom and aunt weren’t invited to your cousin’s ceremony. You can do it but be prepared for some grumbling. I would have thought the easy solution would be to just invite everyone to both.

p.s. off topic, but that “j” word should be avoided because it has racist origins.

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