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    eamiller0813    August 11, 2012  

    I feel like the Unity Candle, Rose Ceremony, and Sand Ceremony are overdone. Myself and my FI don't think this really "fits" either of our personalities.
    I looked into a tree ceremony, but it doesn't really fit the mood of the venue. (Duke University Chapel)

    We are Christians, and would like our ceremony to represent Chirst in our lives and in our marriage. We have concidered God's Braid, but once again... it just didn't feel right.

    He wants to do the indian tradition of a Blanket Ceremony... has anyone seen this done? I'm not sure how I feel about it.

    Any other ideas out there?

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    Have you ever heard of the rose ceremony? There are two ways to do it -- I copied and pasted this from a website because I figured it was a better explanation than I could give. :)

    A Rose to Mothers of the Bride and Groom is usually done at the beginning of the wedding ceremony.  Either the bride and groom can offer a rose to each mother after the presentation of the bride, or they can give a rose at the beginning of the ceremony after prompting by the wedding officiant.  The ceremony officiant could say:
     
    "This wedding celebration is a joining of two unique families who stood separate until today.  Today we unite these families by the marriage of BRIDE and GROOM.  BRIDE and GROOM would each like to honor the separateness of their families and now, the togetherness, with the giving of a rose to their mothers.  They would also like to aknowledge the love and sacrifice that each mother has made to make her children who they are today - - a man and woman who are ready to be in a committed, loving marriage of their own."
    (Bride and Groom, together, present a rose to each mother)

    A Wedding Rose Ceremony is a part of the wedding ceremony that takes place usually after the wedding vows.  The Wedding Officiant or the Maid of Honor and Best Man can offer the rose to the Bride and the Groom at the appropriate moment.  Often a rose ceremony can go like this:

    Officiant:  After the exchanging of rings, your first gift to each other, as husband and wife,  is a single rose.  The rose is a symbol of love so it is a appropriate that it is your first gift.

    Please exchange your first gift as husband and wife.   (GROOM GIVES A ROSE TO BRIDE.)

    GROOM:  (Bride's name)  I give you this rose as a symbol of my love. It began as a tiny, tightly closed bud and blossomed into this perfect rose that opened with the warmth of the sun, just as my love for you has grown in the warmth of your soul.

    (BRIDE GIVES A ROSE TO GROOM.)

    BRIDE:  (Groom's name)  I give you this rose as a symbol of my love. It began as a tiny, tightly closed bud and blossomed into this perfect rose that opened with the warmth of the sun, just as my love for you has grown in the warmth of your soul.

    Officiant: GROOM and BRIDE, in remembrance of this day, as a reaffirmation of your love and of the vows you have spoken here today please give each other a single red rose each year on your anniversary.  In the best of marriages there are difficult times.  There are times of hurtful words, times of neglect, times when we must wait patiently to be together again.  Those may be times when the words you really need to speak are difficult.  I ask that you remember this moment and that when words fail you, that you place a single rose on your spouse's pillow as a way to say, "I remember our vow,"  and "I love you".  Let this exchanging of roses be the beginning of a lifelong tradition of unspoken love.


    http://www.officiantguy.com/roseceremony.html

     
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    swarlesk    September 22, 2012   Bay Area, CA

    Bump... I'm also stuck and uninterested in sand or a unity candle.

     
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    paigers91    May 14, 2012   Memphis, Tn

    We are doing the hand blessing ceremony but it's not very christian. I don't really know of any others. =/

     

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