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  • poll: Should I change my wedding colors halfway through my engagement?
    Yes - The Gray & Pink with Damask looks better. : (46 votes)
    84 %
    No - I should stick with Black & White Damask with Pink : (9 votes)
    16 %
    Other - Give Opinion. : (0 votes)
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    soontobeMrsEschberger    April 28, 2012   The Woodlands, TX

    We got engaged December 2010 & our wedding is April 2012.

    Not too long after we got engaged I have come up with what I thought was the "Perfect" color scheme: Black & White 'Traditions' Damask with hints of Pink (all pink flowers).

    Changing Wedding Colors....halfway through the engagement.. :  wedding black white damask pink silver gray grey charcoal change color Iboard Fdc9727e4f221005

    However... there are certain parts of this color scheme that I do not like so much any more.

    The main thing I'd like to change is the bridesmaid's dresses. (The color, not the style.) I also think I want to "brighten" it up a little, maybe changing the color of linens at the reception?

    This is what I am leaning towards: Gray & Pink with hints of Damask.

    Changing Wedding Colors....halfway through the engagement.. :  wedding black white damask pink silver gray grey charcoal change color Iboard Fbafb176dda61952

    One of the reasons I want to change the BM dress color is because I am not too fond of sticking out in wedding pics like 'a sore thumb' (not in the bad way, but just in a way that is like BAM(!) there's the bride!) haha, And yes, I know that it will be kind of hard to blend in when wearing a rather large dress with a cathedral length train, but still I think standing in a white(ivory) dress surrounded by people wearing black would make me feel like the odd duck out. (..I'm just weird like that).

    So that is why I like the gray/silver BM dresses better. 

    Also, using the gray or silver-ish linens would help 'brighten' the reception a little more for a Spring wedding.

    But with all that said, I still am fond of the Damask pattern.

     

    My Question: What do you think of changing my colors from Black & White Damask with Pink to Gray & Pink with Damask? Is it 'do-able' without being a complete 180?

     
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    PuntaCanaBride    March 30, 2012  

    I think its totally doable. You can easily change your linens. Are the girls dresses bought already? You've still got 7 months until your wedding. 

     
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    soontobeMrsEschberger    April 28, 2012   The Woodlands, TX

    @PuntaCanaBride: The dresses have not been purchased yet, Thank Goodness!

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    If you want to change it, change it.  You don't want to regret your decision later.  I had a black and white damask with fuschia wedding, so of course, I like your original option.  I, do, however, really like the added grey in the mix.  Good luck!

     
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    TheLionQueen    June 2012  

    I like both color schemes, but the grey tones it down a bit, which makes me like it a bit more. I think you can totally change your colors!

     
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    fozzyb79    September 7, 2012   Middletown NY

    I really like the change to gray it feels softer.  I have seen many weddings with black bridesmaid dresses and they work it. I thought it was too bold or harsh a color maybe. I'm not sure how to explain it  I just new it wasn't what I wanted lol I see no issue changing if no dresses have been ordered.

     
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    soontobeMrsEschberger    April 28, 2012   The Woodlands, TX

    Thank y'all.

    @TheLionQueen: "grey tones it down a bit" I think that is what I like about it.

    @fozzyb79: I like the way you worded it, also: "the change to gray it feels softer

     

     
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    MySunshine    May 5, 2012   Redding, CA

    where are you looking for gray linens.... we have had the hardest time finding them!

    Good luck either way!

     
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    FutureMrsBPB    October 1, 2011   Maryland

    I love the gray!  It's really no big deal to change your colors halfway through, either!  David's Bridal discontinued the color of my bridesmaids dresses after I sent out the save the dates in that color...haha.  Just change it to whatever you would like, it will work out fine.  :-)

     
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    MapleBecky    July 9, 2011   Canada

    I really love how sharp option 1 is.   Gorgeous!

     
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    I like the gray better, it's less severe than the black.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I agree that I like your new color scheme much better!

     
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    Gibbs428    April 28, 2012   New Jersey

    Since we are date twins, AND color twins, I thought I'd give my opinion - I am doing gray and pink for my colors, with pale pink/ivory/peach flowers.  I LOVE the addition of the damask though, it really makes it pop.  :)

    Also, my girls are wearing Bill Levkoff dresses in Pewter - it's a great color, not too dark, but not too light that it will wash anyone out in photos. 

     
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    soontobeMrsEschberger    April 28, 2012   The Woodlands, TX

    Thank You for your input!! :)

     

    @MySunshine: We are getting linens from a company called Elegant Beginnings, Inc. they are in Houston & they come with the reception venue.

    @Gibbs428: Yay! Date AND Color Twins! :) and yes, I love the pewter color and definitely think my bridesmaids' dresses will be pewter! Which style are you using? Or will they all be different?

     
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    Gibbs428    April 28, 2012   New Jersey

    @soontobeMrsEschberger: They are all wearing style #568.  My only requiremet was that they wear a chiffon dress (because I loved how light and flowy it would be, perfect for spring!) and they tried on a bunch of dresses and everyone agreed that #568 was the one!  :) 

     
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    NinaS    September 1, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    I voted on Yes, but I think my answer is actually: "Giiiirl, do whatever you want! If you want to change your colours, you change your colours. It's your wedding, so you define your own rules!" 

    Spoken by a person that has changed her colour theme 3x now :) 

     
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    megn133    October 6, 2012   St. Louis, MO

    Using gray instead of black will allow you to use the black and white damask print without it being overwhelming. Gray helps to smooth everything out. I think it will be lovely.

     
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    peachbaby4008    September 29, 2012   Illinois

    I like the gray with the pink a lot for the spring wedding. It definately helps make it more upbeat and not so dark.

     

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