Post # 1
I need opinions…..
My FI and I got engaged in Feb and set our date for Oct 9, 2010 around March/April. A month ago we found out the church we booked put someone else on our day and the hall we booked filed bankruptcy. We are now talking about doing a tented reception since we can use his parents/neighbors land at no cost, which would help because we are going to lose the deposit from the hall. However, being in NW Ohio, I am concerned that Oct might be too chilly. Is it too rude to change our wedding date a to a couple months earlier for weather reasons but also to hopefully get married in the church we want to…which is the church my FI grew up in? I’m concerned about this being an inconvenience to our bridal party.
Any opinions are wanted, I just need to figure out what to do! Thanks!
Post # 3
I think you’re far enough out to change it without too much of an issue.
Post # 4
I would just bring it up with your bridal party.
Post # 5
I think you are perfectly fine to change your date. You had two whammies pulled on you. Sure, there is a possibility someone in your BP might have a schedule conflict with the date. But either they can swing it, or they can’t. at least check it out.
Post # 6
I think thats perfectly fine to change it. maybe talk to your bridal party and make sure they can all do the new date. Your definitely far enough away to change it. good luck. sorry about the troubles.
Post # 7
Well I’d ask them if they minded but I wouldn’ imagine it’d be a huge inconvenience. Especially given the circumstances. I’m in my friends wedding 4 months after my own and I’d gladly do whatever it took to make it easier for her. So I’m sure it’ll work out. Sorry you’re having a hard time getting a date!