Post # 1
Okay so i had a..well two dreams that i cheated on my fiance. And I feel horrible. He has dreams like that before, but they were before we got engaged, but i’ve never had one. Until last night. And I was fine when i woke up, after all it was just a dream, but then as the day has gone on it started eating at me.
One of the dreams involved a guy that i work with(though, he works night shift and i work day shift so i haven’t seen him in a while).
I just needed to vent so thanks girls!
(by the way i figured i would stop titling my post, only in arkansas, since i think people are misinterpreting it lol)
Post # 3
This happens to me periodically too. They are usually about weird men I work with and things like that. It doesn’t make a lot of sense to me. In the dream I always feel awful adn then relieved when I wake up. I interpret it as nerves and tension about the wedding, esp. since I was engaged years ago and the wedding was called off because my FI cheated on me 2 weeks before the wedding (!).
My FI is pretty used to me having all sorts of wacky dreams so I don’t really tell him about the dreams.
Post # 4
Well I had a dream my FI cheated on me and I was mad at him for the rest of that day
I think having weird dreams like that, especially with men we see all the time like co-workers, is completely normal. My friends and I at work, married and single, have actually all had those dreams and we just tease each other about it.
Post # 5
Ha ha ha ha. I’ve had dreams that FI is cheating on me, too. I usually wake up all pissed off at him and tell him what he did in my dream. Now when I start a sentence with "I had this dream last night….." he cuts me off and says "I didn’t do it!" LOL! Poor guy.
Post # 6
LOL I had a dream just last night that I called FI and work and a woman answered his phone and I kept trying to find out where they were and who she was. Totally bizarre, but I’ve had them before, always with different scenarios. I always wake up next to him and while it bothers me I don’t make a big deal about it, but I do make sure to tell him. So far he hasn’t had any dreams like that, but he has had dreams about having to rescue or fight for me and I’m just out of reach, which is kinda scary since when he fights in his dreams he tries to swing in real life! Luckily he’s almost always on his stomach for this, but I’ve resigned myself to knowing that at least once in my life I’ll end up with bruises from it!
Post # 7
ugh it helps to know ya’ll are having these dreams too!
Post # 8
Chalk it up to nerves. I know with all my heart that I love my FH and only want to spend my life with him….and I have had those dreams too….lol
@ Shoe Queen and luny2ni – I have done the same thing!! 🙂
Post # 9
All dreams are, are different pieces of your mind being highlighted due to things going on (biologically) in your brain. Just because you had a dream about someone doesn’t mean you have anything for them or anything like that… dreams are just random. I wouldn’t put any stock into it unless you have a thing for Mr. Nightshift, which I don’t think you do!
Post # 10
Thank God I am not the only one. Except I have dreams of my Boy cheating on me. Everytime we take “that next step” I get really vicious nightmares about him cheating on me, or hitting me, abuse, etc. Which he would NEVEr do. Not just to me but to any girl. When we first started dating, when we hit our one year anniversary and after he proposed. It’s silly. But still frightening.
Post # 11
I have had dreams about cheating on my FI. Actually I had one last night where I cheated on him with Joe McHale from “The Soup” on E! So random that when I woke up I had to laugh. I don’t take those kind of dreams seriously because I know they don’t mean I want to cheat, and I’m not scared that he’ll cheat on me. Just strange dreams.