Cheesy Proposals Days to avoid?

posted 3 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I specifically asked not to be proposed to on a holiday. Seems a little cheesy to me, and I wanted the day we got engaged to be it’s own special day. Not a day shared with a holiday. But other Bees will have other opinions. Maybe add a poll to get a better idea of what the majority thinks?

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I say do it on V-Day! It’s your dating anniversary–That will make is SO special!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I got engaged on Christmas, and I am perfectly happy with that, despite it being a popular day and time of year for proposals. I’m not competing with others regarding the engagement, so that didn’t matter.

Now, if you want something that is a complete surprised (or as much as it can be as you’re already planning the wedding…), then obviously Valentine’s Day or her birthday aren’t ideal, as she’ll be expecting it. If you don’t care about it being expected, then do it on either day. I suppose if you are worried about “competition” then her birthday would be best.

Or if you want it to be more of a surprise, then choose a random day with no other meaning.

No one can really decide for you or tell you what your gf wants. She could love a Valentine’s proposal or find it cheesy. Everyone is different.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@otto2008:  I got engaged last Christmas and I loved it.  Now I joke to my FI that Christmas “belongs to me” lol I think that you should do iit on valentines day, especially since that’s your anniversary.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

To be honest, I don’t think it will really matter all that much. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I don’t find it to be cheesy. I doubt there will be a bunch of couples on the beach getting engaged at the exact same time. It could be cute to propose on valentines day morning, and enjoy the whole day as a newly engaged couple. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@otto2008:  Any day at all is a great day for a proposal. 

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Valentines is pretty cliché (as is most Holidays)

BUT it is your Dating Anniversary.

When you said your Deadline was March 31st… I immediately thought of St Patrick’s Day… March 17th…

But I see that it is Her Birthday

Lol, so another great double-barreled occasion to celebrate.

Mr TTR proposed to me while we were away on Easter Vacation… we were out for a walk on the beach at the time.  It wasn’t a big deal (sans ring)… infact I AFFECTIONATELY call it my Non-Proposal

BUT some girls want a big to-do… like Hollywood.  Not so much for me / our style.

Only you know your girl.

Lol, I might got the Holiday = Non-Holiday Route…

Groundhog Day is February 2nd, and the First Day of Spring is March 20th…

BOTH are symbols of NEW Beginnings / Things to come … so you could tie that into the concept of getting Engaged quite easily.

Or New Years Eve… the ultimate in NEW Beginnings… that would work really well if you want a Proposal with a bit more luxe to it.

Hope this helps,

 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I just ruled out my birthday – I didn’t want to share that with a proposal, lol. I really would have like Xmas or NYE. FI intended to do it NYE but there were too many people at our lookout. He did it a week later on a random Friday.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Who cares what other people are doing? Do what feels right to you and what is special to you and your GF. If your anniversary is on valentines day, then do it then! Don’t compare yourselves to others, this is about the two of you. Good luck!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I specifically asked for mine to not be on a holiday, but I don’t think it is necessarily a bad thing!

I think if I were to choose any holiday to be proposed to, I would choose New Years Eve.

Post # 15
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Worker bee

I soon will be awaiting a proposal from my man.  I can honestly say that I do not care if he proposes on a holiday or just an ordinary day.  But, then again, I might be too easy-going, as I told him that I don’t care HOW he proposes either.  (I don’t need something elaborate… like a flash mob or something.)  All that matters is that the man I LOVE will be asking me to be HIS WIFE. 😀  

I think Valentine’s Day would be cute.  It’s your dating anniversary, so I wouldn’t consider it cheesy.  Although, she might suspect you choosing this day, so if you want to surprise her, then maybe do it another day… Groundhog’s day could be a cool one, like the PP mentioned~ !! 

Good luck!

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@otto2008:  In my opinion there is no such thing as a bad proposal or a bad (or cheesy) proposal day.

I’ve never seen anyone else’s proposal so if you propose on the beach on V-day, there’s unlikely to be anyone else proposing at the same time.

Go with your heart and I’m sure it will be wonderful, whenever it is.

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