chemical pregnancy after miscarriage… I'm so sad

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
765 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@bella128:  (((hugs))) I am so so sorry for your losses. Take some time to heal emotionally and mentally. I don’t have any advice other than to just keep going and take it one day at a time. Hang in there.

Post # 4
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would definitely talk to your doctor about what’s going on! And I’m so, so sorry for your losses!

Post # 5
264 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Awwww i am so sorry to hear this, i was really excited for you 🙁 i’ve been through 2 losses so I know how rough it is. Gve it some time and you’ll know when you are ready to ttc again. message me if u need anything. 🙁

Post # 6
2740 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’m so sorry for your losses.

Post # 7
1787 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

My heart goes out to you; I’m so sorry for your losses.  I know it’s scary, but I’ll echo PP and suggest you do go to see your doctor.  Sharing that you had two miscarriages in a row with them might allow them to look into if there is an issue or something that could help you keep the pregnancy.  Sending virtual hugs and wishing you the best. 

Post # 8
1229 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - Chateau Briand

I am so so sorry for your losses! If you feel taking a break from it would help you cope, by all means do..De definitely consult a doctor in the near future to determine if there is a cause to these issues or what can help. 

Post # 9
7997 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Your body isn’t defective. Miscarriages are totally normal, but for some reason it’s something that isn’t talked about very much.

I know you must be hurting, and I think you’re right – you should take some time to get to a better place emotionally.

You’ve just started so I am not sure why you’re doing all that charting/temping etc. Isn’t that just adding extra pressure and stress? This should be a fun time. The body doesn’t react well to stress.

I would take a break and talk to your doctor about what’s going on.

The fact you seem to be getting pregnant fairly easily is a good thing. I am sure you will have a baby in the near future 🙂

Post # 10
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m so sorry you’re going through this pain.  Take time to heal and relax and when you’re ready, go at it again.  Many have been in your situation and later blessed with their bundle of joy.  Don’t despair 🙂

Post # 11
397 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m so sorry. Your rainbow baby will come and he or she will be the most beautiful thing you’ve laid eyes on. Hugs!

Post # 13
881 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am so very sorry.  I agree with PPs, take any time off you need for the time being but when you are ready to try again I would also recommend talking to a doctor to see if they can do anything to keep this from happening.  I know the general published rule is 3 miscarriages in a row but not all doctors require that.  My doctor ordered simple bloodwork after my first miscarriage.  I didn’t even have to ask for it he just told me when I got pregnant again to let them know immediately and they would get me in for an appointment.  They monitored my hcg levels and progesterone and we found out early (4 weeks) during my second pregnancy my progesterone was quite low.  They put me on supplements and now I am 19 weeks.  I was never tested with my first pregnancy so I’ll never know if that was a progesterone issue or not but it is so nice to have a doctor who is proactive.  If your doctor isn’t perhaps you could find one who is?  Take care and good luck to you.

Post # 14
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I’ve had two as well. It isn’t easy and I understand how you feel. I’m terrified we will have issues when we are actually TTC so I am not much help.

Post # 15
1719 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@bella128:  *sending some hugs your way*  I’m really sorry for your losses!  I do think maybe you should tlak to your doctor though.  Perhaps progesterone might help you?  Good luck moving forward.

Post # 16
4468 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@bella128:  I’m so sorry you are going through this:( FX that your have your rainbow baby soon- your body can get pregnant, so that is a really positive sign that everything will work out.

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