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hey asian brides! i have tons of questions about the chinese tea ceremony.  we are trying to modernize it a bit by doing it at the reception location which is in a beautful garden.  we're doing it right before the dinner, so that all of our guests can witness it.  my fiance is caucasian and his family is really intigued and excited about this part.  i'm going to make programs explaining everything.  Do i have someone be the emcee and narrate everything that is going on.  can we exchange rings during the ceremony? also should i have music as we come in and as we leave? would it be weird to have the wedding march song? how should we conclude the ceremony and move into the dinner part? thanks for any input!!