(Closed) Choosing Bridesmaids…Hardest Decision Ever

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

We solved that dilema by choosing not to have attendants. Anyone that might have been one will be at the wedding, but money and drama will be spared!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I see what you mean, but I think you should just choose whoever you want.  I guess it would look a little silly if you had like 12 BMs, but I don’t think that 4 is really too many, even for a small wedding.  In my opinion it’s more important that you have the people you want next to you. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I agree with @jmc. Youl should have all of them! Four is a very reasonable number, even for a small wedding. And it’s not like you’ll have a whole bridal army up there with you. You should ask them all!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

Four is TOTALLY NOT too many for a small wedding! I think you could get away with even 6 or 7, so you’re totally fine with 4…Ask them all, it will be way more fun with all your closest friends involved! 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

If you were choosing 10 girls for a 70 person wedding, that would be a lot – four is definitely NOT too many for that size wedding.  I say ask the girls you want, because you want them to BMs.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

we’re having a 100 person wedding and i have 6 BM’s 🙂 i didnt want to choose–so i didnt!

Post # 9
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Helper bee

I think if you want all of them in your wedding you should have all of them!!! I’m sorry to say but 4 b/m isn’t to many to have!!!! I think you should have all of them if there your best friends!!

Post # 10
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Helper bee

I think if you want all of them in your wedding you should have all of them!!! I’m sorry to say but 4 b/m isn’t to many to have!!!! I think you should have all of them if there your best friends!!

Post # 11
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Helper bee

opps some how that posted twice sorry

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