Chose my bands but fiancé doesn"t like :( do you think it matters?

posted 2 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

It has a lot of sparkle 🙂 … When my fiance learned that I wanted more diamonds in my wedding ring he felt like he hadn’t gotten me what I wanted in my engagement ring, which was not the case (I love my e-ring!).  So he just needed some reassurance that he did a good job. Could that be the case here?

Post # 4
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1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

MissBec:  I personally would not want my DH to wear a band that I didn’t like, so by the same token, I would prefer to wear one he liked too.

In your set, is there a particular reason to have 2 bands now? I’m afraid I agree with your DH that the sapphire band is a bit random. But it depends on you, would you rather please your DH or have what you want?

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Does he just not like them or are they just not his favorite?  What doesn’t he like about them? My fiance kinda reacted the same as the PP’s did about wanting more diamonds on a wedding band haha. Guys are funny sometimes.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

MissBec:  I think the sapphire ring is really pretty but as a “spacer” ring, I would go for something plainer. Are you dead set on having diamonds? Couldn’t you just have one plain wedding band which shows off your e-ring?

When your fiancé said it was random, did he come up with an alternative suggestion?

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

MissBec:  Sounds like you’ve already made up your mind to me 🙂 Cross your fingers that you fiancé likes it in real life, or accept the fact that he doesn’t. Otherwise make him choose something he likes!

Post # 12
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6507 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think it looks nice. Is there a particular reason you picked blue sapphire?

I personally wouldn’t want to wear wedding bands that my SO other didn’t like. I would ask him to go shopping with me to find something we both like.

Post # 13
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1627 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t think the rings look random. To me your entire ring look is busy, but that also has a lot to do with the halo/cluster e-ring. I like the blue band’s style. Why the two bands though? Would you have him put both on during your wedding ceremony?

You have to wear the rings, not him so IMO he doesn’t have to like it.

Post # 15
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97 posts
Worker bee

I think he should like it, it’s a symbol of your love after all. If it were me I’d find something you both liked.

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