Classmates expecting an invitation

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@SouthernGirl:  …what hole are these people crawling out of? Never in my life, until the Bee, have I heard stories of people phoning or messaging a bride to say “can I come to your wedding?” much less “where is the place so I can be there?”

Unreal. I would not try to remain graceful if someone so rude as to ask in the first place kept pressing me. I would say “listen: I’ve tried to put this gently, but you’re putting me in a bad position. The guest list has already been made.”

Post # 4
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3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I would just say “I’m flattered you want to come, but the wedding is for family only and we plan to keep it that way.” 

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