Post # 1
- Wedding: April 2014 - Rebar
ladies…we have had few complications buying our first home. Our closing date has change several times. But we received very sad news today…that it will moved to mid January. It will absolutely gives us a bit more time to prepared but at the same time we are both feeling pretty down about I. Anyways ladies there is also something else in mind…SO was going to propose…the day of the closing or some time after our closing…SO can’t keep a secret…lol we originally set a timeline till dec 31st 2013. but he way really wantEd to propose was knowing that we had our first home. But that has changed and I am wondering wether I will wait till next year. I know u may say whats another month…but for me it means the world. 🙁 I honestly don’t know what he will do.
just need some consolation….
Post # 3
@katherin788: I saw your post about him saying he would propose on closing day and you sounded so excited. I know “it’s only another month”. But you know, it’s only a month for him to compromise too. Plus… Well, shit happens. The day before closing the lender will repull you credit reports and want to know why your visa balance is up $17. Then on the rescheduled close date the settlement office will burn down. At some point your anxiety is as important as his housewarming plans. Of course the pushbacks were out of his control but it sounds like he is allowing outside influences determine the timing of your relationship. (I get school, jobs, money). But geez you guys aren’t homeless! It sounds as if you’re really hurt and getting resentful (I am SO with you there). Can you tell him that? That the anxiety of waiting for both the house AND the engagement is just too much. That if he stops being set in his ways about this yall can have an amazing December AND January Vs a really really bad December and him sleeping on the couch in January