Closing for our first home delayed….:(

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
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Helper bee

@katherin788:  I saw your post about him saying he would propose on closing day and you sounded so excited. I know “it’s only another month”. But you know, it’s only a month for him to compromise too. Plus… Well, shit happens. The day before closing the lender will repull you credit reports and want to know why your visa balance is up $17. Then on the rescheduled close date the settlement office will burn down. At some point your anxiety is as important as his housewarming plans.  Of course the pushbacks were out of his control but it sounds like he is allowing outside influences determine the timing of your relationship. (I get  school, jobs, money). But geez you guys aren’t homeless!  It sounds as if you’re really hurt and getting resentful (I am SO with you there). Can you tell him that? That the anxiety of waiting for both the house AND the engagement is just too much. That if he stops being set in his ways about this yall can have an amazing December AND January Vs a really really bad December and him sleeping on the couch in January

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