Clothing the flower girls

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3653 posts
Sugar bee

White ballet slippers? When I was a flowergirl, my dress was white, with a pink sash. We wore pink stockings (they were hot) and white ballet slippers, which I already had.

I don’t think stockings are necessary. If all the girls have white sandals, that would be fine. They don’t have to match and the dress looks long, so they won’t be obvious, anyway.

Post # 4
2111 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

How old are they? If they don’t need tons of ankle support, I’d say just some ballet flats or Mary Janes. With the big skirt, their shoes won’t really be visible anyways.

Post # 7
42157 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Orchidgirl80:  I would do something like this- for toddlers I would add an elastic strap across the forefoot

Satin Flower Girl Shoes - Baby Toddler sizes - Neutral Colors - Couture Ballet Slipper - Satin and Tulle - Baby Souls Baby Shoes








or white sandals







 I would definitely not do a little heel. They look silly on toddlers. Kids grow up fast enough without putting them in heels.


Post # 8
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I think sandals for the two little girls, and see how the parents feel about low-heeled MJs for the 5 year old! I bet she would love to wear “big girl heels”!

If their dresses aren’t fully lined, you might want to let the parents pick stockings/pants/leggings for underneath, to avoid the tulle itching/scratching!

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