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    KT808    October 18, 2012  

    I love the fact that different opinions can be expressed in a polite and respective manner. What a BORING world it would be if we all thought alike!

     
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    Porkchop    March 31, 2012  

    @bakerella:  LIKE! Thanks Bakerella

     

    LOL I LOVE THESE HATS! 

     
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    HummusGal    October 6, 2012   Michigan

    I totally agree @bakerella: great reminder for everyone on the boards here, the positive energy is what draws all of us here, so we definitely can't forget that along the way as we become more involved in the community!

    PS - LOVE LOVE LOVE all of the silly hat pictures... :)  Made me giggle.

     
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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    I'm glad you all are embracing it :) We all love it here, so I think we should all keep working to let this place stay a postive, safe environment for us all. I totally agree, if everyone had the same viewpoint this would be a boring world, and what keeps this world interesting is ongoing dialogue and discussion about what makes those differences so interesting and can help to open up each of our worldviews. We can have meaningful dialogue without using harsh words or attacking each other, and at the end of it, learn a lot about something we may have never thought about from an opposing perspective. You don't have to change your mind at the end of it, but you can at least chew it over and respect where the other person is coming from :)

    And in other news, I want one of these:

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Unicorn Hats  Large Msg 130463875355

     
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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    I'm going to bump this to the top of the stickies. I think this is important for everyone to check out....

     

     
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    tranquility    August 20, 2011  

    Thanks!

    It is sad that as adults we need a reminder to "play nice". 

    Hopefully everyone can just remember to be respectful. 

     
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    redheadem    September 30, 2012   NYC/MD

    Out of genuine curiosity, why are there any "lifestyle" boards on here if this is a wedding site? I don't think babies or no babies has anything to do with weddings, and it is only contributing negativity to this site.

     
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    tranquility    August 20, 2011  

    @redheadem:  Honestly, there could be a board on peanut butter sandwiches if there was enough interest, that doesn't mean that people have the right tobe mean or disrespectful.

    People just need to grow up and realize that this is the interenet, there will be people with different beliefs and ways of life. We have to just respect ourselves and each other. 

     
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    redheadem    September 30, 2012   NYC/MD

    Of course I understand we need to be respectful no matter what, but my question still stands.

     
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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    @redheadem:  A lot of our members love this community and have chose to stay post wedding, so as the site grows and life changes, we've continued to expand the boards to accommodate the needs of our members. This is, at the end of the day, a business, so of course we want members to stay! LOL!

    That being said, as with all topics wedding related, there is an expectation for all of our members to adhere to the TOS and respect each others choices, wedding or lifestyle related. We love WB being a safe, fun, and creative environment, and I think we can all work together to keep it that way :)

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    @red dino:  It's from Etsy!

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    @redheadem:  In addition to Bees choosing to stay on past the wedding, like bakerella said, not everyone can separate out wedding/pregnancy/nesting into neat little separate compartments.  Things happen, and sometimes people have to deal with these issues simultaneously.  Why not discuss all aspects of your life with a community you enjoy?

     

     
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    imalittlebirdie    May 24, 2014  

    Oh, I found my hat. ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Wish

    edit: I totally resized it and WB said "NO!" Sorry its so big!

     
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    Dandelion D    April 13, 2013   Virginia

    Thanks, bakerella and all the others! I've only been an active member of the bee for a short while but I've noticed the shift lately and it has kinda bummed me out.I hope we can all keep this in mind and enjoy this community.

    Now...I'm off to find a hat to call my own!

     
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    MrsElopement    April 29, 2012  

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Sittin On Mah Couch

     
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    knight.keira    July 21, 2011   Australia

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Hat Audrey White

    I would love to wear this hat!

     
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    Miss Godiva    June 1, 2012   California

    I love this thread. It does kind of suck that we, as adults, have to be reminded to be nice to one another, but still. Thanks for helping us be peaceful :-)

    As far as hats go .... I couldn't decide on just one. Besides, I can't wear the same hat every single day, now can I? hehe

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Il 430xn52957978

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Girls Womens Glazed Donut Cap Hat P148629283416007491zv2ii 400

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Donut%2Bhat

     
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    MsPanda    August 17, 2013   Oregon

    I want to add a hat too! This is my panda hat... But now i really do want a panda hat. lol

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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    @MsPanda:  Want?! You need a panda hat!!!

     
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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    @imalittlebirdie:  LOVE that hat!!

    @knight.keira:  I would totally wear that! It's gorgeous!!

    @Miss Godiva:  I would totally eat that! It's gorgeous!

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    Ok I seriously need to contribute a hat too... so here's my "Goofy" hat

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat 190063 10150435042520160 678465159 17654797 3341018 N

     
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    Aure    October 6, 2012   Las Vegas

    Thanks for the reminder!

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Wizardcat

     
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    littlelucygoose    March 2012  

    THANK YOU!

    I, too, have fallen victim to cattiness and defensiveness and I am brand spankin' new to the site. A kind reminder that we are all different people with different choices. I will be watching what I type from now on!

     
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    MsPanda    August 17, 2013   Oregon

    @bakerella:  You are right! How do I not already have one?

     
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    JulesSchnooks    July 30, 2011   Maryland

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Sillyhatsonly

    ONLY Silly hats!!  Tongue Out

     
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    Miss Circe    May 31, 2015   New Zealand

    @TheFutureMcBride:  You're not the only one. But then I've always had a soft spot for the eccentric designs of Philip Treacy.

    And I think this flowchart is relevant to the topic under discussion..

    http://laughingsquid.com/comic-flowchart-on-how-to-deal-with-internet-arguments/

     
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    MrsS2Be    May 27, 2012   Atlanta, Ga

    I appreciate the wedding bee for having positive responses to questions. It's about offering help not judgements. Obviously, the person who posts is not sure of the situation and is looking for help.

    I truely believe there are blog stockers on a few other wedding sites/ blogs who live to judge/ offer advise...

    Thank you Wedding Bee

     
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    MrsS2Be    May 27, 2012   Atlanta, Ga

    ** PLEASE REVIEW** Coexisting on Weddingbee :  wedding sticky coexisting blue hat Images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRUzgyJCF XSPwH2oJ04awcllXmAyGqVMWwxKpB0aUYs7oeP1ya

     

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